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My Husbands friend said something to me that made me very un
Me and my hubby like to have our old and new friends over for cookouts,
play horseshoes, and catch up on old times. There was 5 of my hubby's friends
here yesterday. While fixing the hamburgers, we were all talking about fishing in the
local carp fishing lake. I said "yeah i won biggest fish with my 19 pounder that one day"
W looks at me and says "were you on your period? Cause if girls are on it its like the
fish smell it or something they love it" I just said no and dropped it I didnt mind that that much cause
i have heard of things like that before fishing. Well later on J was talking about how
my 7 yr old daughter was eating so much. I said "Yeah she does that all the time but she
is so active she burns it all off" He looks straight at me and says"she looks like you,
you look like you burn yours off too or T(my hubby) works it out of you one" I was
so shocked at what he said all i could say was "uh" I got my burgers and ate in the house.
My son came in and said "mom that guy(he described J) told me that if i didnt stop
playing on that (car) jack i was gonna hurt my balls" My kids aint around that kind
of language. When my hubby came in i told him what i thought about it.
He said "well you just have to get to know him better" He did tell the guys to watch what they say.
W came back by himself and told T to let me know he was sorry if he said anything to offend me and
that he was sorry for the others too. Which like i said i dont really care what he said that much.
J though said before he left he wanted to bring his wife and kids here next time.
But I dont even want him here again, let alone with his family. Am I wrong for thinking this?
What do you think i should do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Etiquette?
even though he was given one chance, he screwed it up.
no normal man in their right mind would say something so vulgar to a lady, let alone a child. it's completely unappropriate and you should be glad you are keeping your child away from such disgusting way.
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If your husband made them aware that they need to watch their language in your home, then give him another chance. He will most likely be on much better manners if his wife is with him. If situations bring you together again, be open minded, but if he doesn't show you more respect, just let your husband know you'd rather not have him at your house.
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I don't think you're wrong. I wouldn't be trusting a guy who makes perverted comments. (If he's saying those things, imagine what he's thinking..) Follow your instincts; you shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable.
Go ahead and talk about it first with your husband and tell him how you feel about this.
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