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hopeless at understanding men
Posted Tuesday April 29 2008, 2:57 am
i went on a "date" w/this guy(that i initiated) we went out for dinner, though we both never specified that it was anything more than that, and we hung out for a long time. i thought it went well, and he hugged me at the end.i didn't get any hint he wanted to see me again until he brings it up 3 weeks later randomly in the middle of our conversation.the 3 weeks leading to that i became upset b/c i felt maybe he didn't like me, even though he'd always become real happy to see me around.so even though this is what i wanted to hear him say, i guess 3 weeks of waiting overrode my enthusiasm.and later he convinced me to play intramural soccer w/him, i played one game and after the game he texts me and says "babe you're the best&qu...
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He's 20 im 16...
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 10:44 pm
I kno the title sounds bad already.. but i met this guy he's the sweetest guy ever like he's perfect in every way and i think i fell in love with him. we had to stop seeing eachother because his ex girlfriend of 2 years came back to him so they tried again n it ended as soon as fast as it started and we recently started talking.. on the phone texting (he lives about an hour away) well now that his ex girlfriend's out of the picture and she's moving so she'll be farther away i think we were gonna try something again but now im worried he's got another girl behind my back.. i figured out they've been talkin on the phone.. hangin out.. he threw her a party.. and everything flirting obviously and idk what to do.. i dont want to confront him bec...
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think im still a kid?? idk grrrr
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 10:27 pm
OK SO.
here's the story. (im 15)
My parents think im like a little kid still.... but im totally different in school.
I wouldnt be surprised if they still think I think boys are yucky.
I definitely DONT. but its like im a kid here, and different at school.
at school i swear sometimes (try not to)
i see hott guys and like them
when i get home....
im daddy's little girl, and they dont think ill get a boyfriend for a while, and i think they think i dont even like guys yet.
AND I TOTALLY DOOOO.
i feel that it i change my home life.... everything will change
and i would feel REALLY AWKWARD telling them guy stories and stuff like that.
i dont know what to do.
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Mystery guy ;P
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 9:09 pm
Ok, well, i'm in that phase when i like a guy,but i've never talked to him (ahh,pathetic, right?)
but anyways, i always see him around my school, in the hallways,lunches, and going to class. he's a year older-so thats the only time i see him! I've made eye contact with him, and from friends i've heard he "checked me out" :D
The thing is, i'm not sure HOW i'll go about saying hi to him with out making it too forward or awkward!
i want him to see my confident personality like i have with my friends, but i feel self concious about my weight (i'm a bit muscular, from softball) but i just don't know what he'll think of me.
any tips on how i can go about talking to him, flirting and being mo...
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Ooh boy. Who to choose?
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 8:11 pm
I'm 16/f and my bf's sixteen too. We've been together for 5 months. I have a best guy friend who I've turned down many times. I used to not like him at all, actually. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him...Like, I suddenly walk into class one day and I feel something for him. And he always tries to make my boyfriend jealous on purpose..Like he'd grab a hold of my arm in front of my bf..and make him go insane. In math class, he caresses my arm and hair..and giggles and stuff. And I don't really have a problem with it. But it's my bf..who, frankly, I like less. And I just don't know what to do. I can't really be sure about my guy friend..him liking me and all. Ive asked him..he said he doesn't. But I don't believe it since the body language...
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What do I do now?
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 6:51 pm
I liked a guy.
We have one mutual friend, and I wanted the friend to drop a little hint to him, so I could test the waters and see what was up, how he reacted to it, etc.
Well, my friend did that today. She made the comment (after seeing me), "I think _____(my name) likes you." She said this to the guy.
The guy stares blankly for a second. And then goes "I don't believe you." And the friend goes "What?! Why don't you believe me? I'm telling you so." and the guy goes "I don't believe you, that's not possible.". Then some of the guys friends came, and he stopped talking.
I have a class with the guy, two periods later. In that class, I was sitti...
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should i tell him i like him???
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 5:42 pm
ok so theres this guy ive liked for a while and we’re friends and in the beginning of the school year i noticed that he liked me and i knew he did. now this is the time that all the guys ask the girls to the prom. i really want him to ask me but one of my friends might like him but we aren’t close enough friends that we would tell each other our secrets. so the thing is my friend and the guy i like are pretty close friends like today we were watching a movie in class and they sat next to each other and were talking about how they are getting married in las vegas and it was practically a joke but she also told every one how she wants this other guy to ask her to the prom. so the point is that i want to im the guy i like and tell him i li...
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Should I tell my Step Brother I love him?
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 5:34 pm
Ever since I was 5 my Dad got married, giving my a new step mother and step brother to deal with. His mom and my dad knew each other through our church, so I always knew he wasn't my real brother, and even if I didn't; He's Black and I'm Dominican, so it's kind of "apparent". I'm a couple of months older than he is.
He's usually a quiet and calm person, but I feel he goes out of his way to make time if I want to talk or just chill. He's an awesome step-brother; the best, and I thank God for him like everyday.
A couple of years back, I started looking at him...differently. All the traits I like about him, I started to love about him. Things I took for granted started becoming really difficult to do. I feel really sel...
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flirting
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 4:41 pm
so there is this guy im interested in and i swear i seriously suck at flirting.
i want him to be able to talk to me.and notice me. and get to know me, what should i do? he seems kinda not really shy.
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why do i have this thing with HIM and break HER heart?"
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 4:38 pm
f/15/fl
well to start off my name is samantha b and my x-boo dana is dating 1 of my friends and i'm ok with that kinda, but they have been going out for the past four months and he wants to cheat on her with me but i don't know what i'm going to do, we have already made out once, and we have walked together like to class and every thing, but our hint word for cheating or us wanting to see each other agin is "do u want to play the game" and its like that on and off. but the hole reason why hes doing this is b/c shes always saying "i'm going to brake up with u and date some one else" i resently tolled him that (the guy that i'm trying to get with)him and amanda were talking about going out and having sex ...
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so lonely
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 2:58 pm
so lonely
i want a boyfriend i want someone to hold me and kiss me. take care of me. talk to me and all of that.
but it seems that they dont exist or im invisible. all of my mates are loved up so i guess im not pretty enough or invisible or both.
thats a depressing thought
just so lonely
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boyfriends ex girlfriend
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 1:55 pm
i've been dating my boyfriend for six months.
but three months before that his girlfriend that was his girlfriend on and off for three years broke up with him.
i really don't know why he stayed with her in the first place, she cheated on him all the time. and the guy she dumped him for, and is now dating, is the ONE of the guys she cheated on him with.
and inbetween their breakups she'd always have a different boyfriend, but he never had another girlfriend.
hes messed around with other girls, but i'm only his second girlfriend.
well anyways, i love him. i honestly do. and i know he cares about me, but sometimes it just pisses me off that their past is like that.
and i like her, shes fun. but he does...
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help with flirting.
Posted Monday April 28 2008, 7:19 am
Okay, I'm kinda in the phase of my life where I'd like a boyfriend (:
I'm not totally desperate, and I'm 'taking life as it comes' however that doesn't really land you one.
Where are places I should go to at least FLIRT with guys.
Places guys would go if they don't have girlfriends would help heaps, the most nerve wracking thing about flirting in my opinion is the fact they might have girlfriends. I know it's a common thing, but since I've never really done it before it would really discourage me. Haha.
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What am I doing.
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 11:17 pm
So, this guy really likes me, and I really like him a lot. He's amazing, and instead of him calling me "hot", He tells me I'm beautiful, incredible, amazing ect. And I love it, he makes me SO happy.(: But, he always asks "Wanna hang out?(:" and I always say yes becuase I really do, but then at the last minuet, I find myself making up things to get out of it. I still don't know why. My friend asked me the same thing! And I just realized, I have no idea. She thinks it has something to do with my dad leaving when I was like two, and I never got to know him. But I have no idea. Help?
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boys
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 9:42 pm
okay well i went out with this boy a few weeks ago. We broke up because he wanted to make out after one day and i said sure tommorrow when we hangout he said okay then he couldnt hang and we broke up the next day to make out with another girl. They madeout like 20 times and i didnt like him until today when i saw him. I have also seen him like a million times before and liked other boys. Now i like like him again and i want to makeout with him or go out with him. But i dont know if he likes me and i dont have the guts to ask him. so please give me tips.
and i dont care if i sound whorish.
and sorry its realy long.
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How do you stop being obsessive?
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 9:07 pm
Im 19 and ive bin going out with my girlfriend who is 17 for 1 year and 4 months. I live in PA and she lives in NJ. I am obsessive with her. I want her all to me. She use to have alot of guy friends like that was all her friends. she told me that she isnt happy and she wants to hang out with her guy friends and im not good with that. i call her alot more than i should. she said that i have till the end of the summer to change or she is leaving me. She has bin the best friend i never had. I love her to death. im just afriend that shes gona meet a guy better than me cause theres alot better guys that she could have.
I need steps on how not to be obsessive. i want to be with her longer then 4 months.
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dating pointers =]
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 8:26 pm
imagine this fun happy spirited girl who runs around and doesn't give a flip =] she likes meeting people and can make conversation with people easily. but then when she finds out a guy likes her, its like she gets all nervous. she pretty much loses all of her spunk that probably attracted the guy in the first place. but she finds it hard to trust the guy in a way, and his intentions. either shes afraid or she just hasn't had enough experience with guys. but she wishes she could show him who she really is. because he told her friend that he liked this girl and they've been hanging out together once a week for the last few weeks. they even kissed once =]. but she needs help letting loose. she needs to get her groove back hahaha. i bet you all...
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Orientation
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 7:08 pm
F/15
okay so recently i kinda feel like Im a total lesbian and i mean believe me i have nothing wrong with LGBTs at ALL. But I think the main problem for me is like the future. I mean i guess i can give up on the fantasy of me marring an amazing guy and having kids.
I keep telling myself it doesnt matter and i have time to figure it out but id just like to know you know?
help?
Oh and if you are just gonna be rude about homosexuality please dont even respond
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I DONT LIKE BRINGING MY BOYFRIEND OVER
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 7:01 pm
okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore a...
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When is Kiss Time?
Posted Sunday April 27 2008, 5:38 pm
Hi.
14/m
I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.
Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.
Thank you.
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