I'm 16/f and my bf's sixteen too. We've been together for 5 months. I have a best guy friend who I've turned down many times. I used to not like him at all, actually. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him...Like, I suddenly walk into class one day and I feel something for him. And he always tries to make my boyfriend jealous on purpose..Like he'd grab a hold of my arm in front of my bf..and make him go insane. In math class, he caresses my arm and hair..and giggles and stuff. And I don't really have a problem with it. But it's my bf..who, frankly, I like less. And I just don't know what to do. I can't really be sure about my guy friend..him liking me and all. Ive asked him..he said he doesn't. But I don't believe it since the body language proves otherwise. Soo I'm kinda stuck in between..and can't decide. I don't want to be a bad girlfriend either. What would you do?
iiL0VEY0U answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 1:59 am: Hey Girl! :]
well i hate situations like this thay suck;
but i'm going to try and help you as much as i
can because i know how you feel by this point,
real tip, sound as though your best guy friend still does like you but doesnt want you to know because of the past, hes your best friend meaning you two must hangout alot, so the feelings haven't gone any where, [good news!] [:
the only problem is your boyfriend, if your loseing feelings for him wait a little and then if thay go away completely break it off to him
in a nice way let him know you just want to be friends, then your guy friend will then be their for you because he is your best guy friend then some where along the lines show him you have feelings for him! and by that time he will spill he still likes you!
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