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Mystery guy ;P


Question Posted Monday April 28 2008, 9:09 pm

Ok, well, i'm in that phase when i like a guy,but i've never talked to him (ahh,pathetic, right?)
but anyways, i always see him around my school, in the hallways,lunches, and going to class. he's a year older-so thats the only time i see him! I've made eye contact with him, and from friends i've heard he "checked me out" :D

The thing is, i'm not sure HOW i'll go about saying hi to him with out making it too forward or awkward!
i want him to see my confident personality like i have with my friends, but i feel self concious about my weight (i'm a bit muscular, from softball) but i just don't know what he'll think of me.

any tips on how i can go about talking to him, flirting and being more, welll..me around him?!


thanks so much :D!

15/f


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QueenofDiamonds answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 3:28 pm:
Just smile and maybe say hi when you see him. Then when he gets used to that. Try and strike up a conversation with him.

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MissCheerGirl0811 answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 11:27 am:
here is a suggestion,,,,, do you know his friends. becuase your situation is sorta like mine, there is this cute guy named jesse and well im friends with his friend gabriel and justin, so when i talk to gabriel and justin they go hey jesse this is my friend MissCheerGirl0811 and he talked to me (i sound pathetic too dont worry about it many people get shy around a person they like) so yeah dont doubt his friends in getting in okay becuase they can help alot and me im a really shy person so i make myslef look like a dork but i really like this guy he sounds so amzaing on how they tell me about him and well after being with so many jerks i need some that will treat me right becuase im tired of cryign over guys :( (dont every guy over a guy it only makes them think that they are better than you and are powerful trust me it goes to their head) but yeah talk to his friends his friends can always make him consider you but dont FLIRT with his friends or make it look like flirting becuase he will be turned off and he will ingore you. every girl likes guys attention so do expirements with make up if you need to or something new with your hair that will catch the guys attention if you can catch a guy attentin with somethign new then you can catch his attention most definitly. keep him interested by you with somethign your good at say your softball! is he in any sports? most guys like a sporty girl or something they do as an extra curricular activities becuase they like in shape girls.
well good luck!!! go boy fishing!!
they made me tke out my lols
-MissCheerGirl0811

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Shelly_x answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 11:11 am:
As you pass him in the halls and he looks at you say hi or smile, do this a few times and then he might talk to you first or you might feel a little more confident to go and talk to him .
You could just ask him one day for the time, its an ice breaker and then start asking his name and what classes he is in etc
Its good if you have some friends that are his friends this way you have something in common.
I guess if you talk to him for abit ask if he has myspace or AIM (if you have it of course haha) then get talking to him on there.

Dont think I hope he likes me around him, just be yourself and start off being friendly towards him, and then you could see about being more =]

Hope this helped <3

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