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Question Posted Monday April 28 2008, 9:17 pm

So, there is this guy , T, who I have liked for several months, we are pretty much perfect for each other, but I never made a move because he had a girlfriend ( who was 18) ( he is 15), plus he had recently moved from the east coast to the west (here) so I knew they were going to break it off eventually. Now i still really like him and we are good friends, but I dont want to freak him out because he just broke up with his ex like a week ago, and they have dated for almost 2 years.

But now I suspect our mutual friend to like him too! I never told J that I like T because I thought she would tell him and he was still in a realtionship, so that would kill our friendship. I want to stay friends with J but it would break my heart if they dated.

Then there is this guy D who is always telling me how much he likes this one girl, M. who is our ( D and my) mutual friend, now she knows that he likes her, but she doesnt know that he is always hitting on me. D and I are in yoga PE with J and when I am in some positions , he makes weird comments like "dayummm, id tap that" , and if i ask why he forgot his yoga mat, he says " i was hoping i could just lay on you"

I have no freaking idea what to do about my feelings for T, how i should handle the J situation, and how to respond to D with out hurting him or M.

help?


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randomconfusionx answered Wednesday April 30 2008, 11:02 pm:
just tell T.
and if you really care,
then you'll let him be with J, it'd hurt
but you'd be happy for them.
=]

about D, maybe he's just a perv,
trust me, i know guys like that.
=/

but yeah.
it's okay, just tell T.
he might like you.
=] <3

but about the D M thing.
are they dating....
if so, wow... tell him to stop!!!!!
that's not right
if he really cares about M, then he wouldn't do that with you...
if they're not dating.
then maybe he doesnt like M as much as he/you think he doesss.
hope i helped.

[[sorry for the random smilieys]]
=P


<33 destiny

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QueenofDiamonds answered Tuesday April 29 2008, 3:26 pm:
If I were you I drop a few hints to J that you like T. So then it won't come as a shock if you ever want to pursue a relationship with him. Then I would tell D that you weren't interested and that his comments made you uncomfortable. And then I would tell M That he was hitting on you. So she won't get her feelings hurt if he doesn't like her.

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