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He's 20 im 16...
I kno the title sounds bad already.. but i met this guy he's the sweetest guy ever like he's perfect in every way and i think i fell in love with him. we had to stop seeing eachother because his ex girlfriend of 2 years came back to him so they tried again n it ended as soon as fast as it started and we recently started talking.. on the phone texting (he lives about an hour away) well now that his ex girlfriend's out of the picture and she's moving so she'll be farther away i think we were gonna try something again but now im worried he's got another girl behind my back.. i figured out they've been talkin on the phone.. hangin out.. he threw her a party.. and everything flirting obviously and idk what to do.. i dont want to confront him because then i seem "stalkerish" and "obsessed" which in reality im def. not like that. but i dont want to get hurt again. its been one of those we'll talk all day one day n he wont talk to me at all for the next 2.. and when he's not talkin to me im pretty sure he's talkin to her =/ please help i need advice!
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You really don't know where he stands with this girl, or so it seems to me. He may still care about this girl but still care about you at the same time, he may just not be ready to move on from her yet. I think you need to just step back and realize that he is an older guy first off and second off he is a guy, he may not come out with his feelings and he most likely probably won't let you know where he stands. Don't push him because you don't want to lose him. If you push him to hard then you may miss the chance to fall in love with someone. Stay in touch with him, but play a little hard to get. Don't panic when you don't talk and don't freak when he talks to his ex-girlfriend. Let him know you are interested and if it's meant to be then it will happen and if not you can do better ;]
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He's just not that into you.
He is also 20 years old, which would make a relationship very difficult, if not impossible.
Don't waste your energy worrying or 'confronting' him. There isn't even anything to confront about! You just like flirting with him is all.
Go find someone who wants what you want, and is really into you.
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hmm personal experiance im going on 17 and i went out with a guy who was 18 while i was 14... they tend to have manipulative ways...now... no offense if any1 takes offense to it but you have to realize it's kinda true. so i;d say BE CAREFUL dont lett him convince you into anything... etc... as far as this other girl... you know what.. dont chase guys... guys should be chasing after you. you dont deserve to be after some1 you feel me? i know it sounds selfish but its true. he should be chasing you as well.. if you're Zseriouis bout having a relationship with him, then do confront him.. but beware some states dont allow this kind of dating and can be considered Statutory rape. good luck =]
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Chances are he isn't interested in having one relationship. He won't change for you. You on the other hand seem to know what you want. Think of this, all the fish in the sea are fish but not all are good to eat. If you were to go fishing and you were to catch a fish that stunk would you keep it because you caught it? Of course not. You throw it back, bait your hook and cast back out. The best anglers spend years fishing for that one special prize fish not taking second best and quiting. Let that looser go and cast back! You have way too many good years ahead of you to waste them on a fish you don't want mount on the wall. Change your bait, go to a different lake, change your casting techniques. Just do something different!!!
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