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imagine this fun happy spirited girl who runs around and doesn't give a flip =] she likes meeting people and can make conversation with people easily. but then when she finds out a guy likes her, its like she gets all nervous. she pretty much loses all of her spunk that probably attracted the guy in the first place. but she finds it hard to trust the guy in a way, and his intentions. either shes afraid or she just hasn't had enough experience with guys. but she wishes she could show him who she really is. because he told her friend that he liked this girl and they've been hanging out together once a week for the last few weeks. they even kissed once =]. but she needs help letting loose. she needs to get her groove back hahaha. i bet you all love how this question is all hypothetical. thanx =]]]
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Wow, this girl sounds like this one girl I know... hypothetically speaking of course. ;)
Eventually, I convinced this girl to relax and be herself. I told her not to be afraid to speak her mind. As Dr. Seuss once said, "Always say what's on your mind. The one's that mind don't matter and the one's that matter don't mind."
So that girl I know was never able to date anyone because she just felt so nervous and uncomfortable around any guy that got close to her. But one day, this boy came along. He was hurt by one of her friends and she nursed his broken heart. Eventually, that girl grew to like that boy. She waited and waited for that nervous feeling to come, but it never did. Something was different about him. They are still together today. :)
Back to the girl you know...
Like you said, that guy probably likes the girl because of how awesome she is. And if she tries so hard but no matter what she cannot open up around that guy, then he is probably not the one for her. If she really wants it to work, she will find a way to make it happen in time. Before then, she should be friends with the guy and get to know him better. Once she knows the guy better, I am sure she can open up around him a lot more.
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I have but two bit of advice, "Open you hands" and "breath" that will help you to relax. from there I feel you've got.
I hope this helps
~ Shadowfox
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im totally opposite of you. ima shy person infront of everyone. but infront of my boyfriend..i talk. alot. or i use to. it was because i was nervous. i noticed that when i ate infront of him i felt more comfertable. yeah thats weird but true. try eating a big meal infront of him. it might work for you to. lol sorry its so odd.
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