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think im still a kid?? idk grrrr
OK SO.
here's the story. (im 15)
My parents think im like a little kid still.... but im totally different in school.
I wouldnt be surprised if they still think I think boys are yucky.
I definitely DONT. but its like im a kid here, and different at school.
at school i swear sometimes (try not to)
i see hott guys and like them
when i get home....
im daddy's little girl, and they dont think ill get a boyfriend for a while, and i think they think i dont even like guys yet.
AND I TOTALLY DOOOO.
i feel that it i change my home life.... everything will change
and i would feel REALLY AWKWARD telling them guy stories and stuff like that.
i dont know what to do.
It's like the other day i had to lie to them that i was hanging around with a guy and my friends because i didnt want them to flip out and not let me go.
for instance..... they found a guys number in my phone (my friend joe) ya he's my friend and in my class.
My sister found him in my phone and told my parents and now all they say is.... ohhhhh she likes joe ohhh. all that stuff. which i dont like him like that. So ya they make a big deal out of everything. saying stuff like oooo are you inviting joe to your party..... and i dont even like him.... they are just being annoying,
im afraid to tell them any guy stuff because they will over react about it
another example is....
i slept over my friends house for the first time...
and my dad called to check if there was gonna be any boys there!!!!!!
ya. i know
help?
thx babes
sorry its so long
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Okay im 15 too so i know what your going through. And technically we ARE still kids, and you should enjoy it while you have it!! Yes you may be mature. Different at school. Thats the way i am. I think it is just because they are our parents so therefore we treat them different. You will always be your parents little girl, and they will always baby you because they dont want you to grow up and they have trouble grasping the conversation. You just got to learn to take a joke and ignore them. I know its hard but trust me, as annoying as it is, its worth it haha
-hayley
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Hi, I have 4 girls and I did my girls the same way. They never understood either. My oldest listened to my advice eventually and married her first love, has 2 boys and are doing well. My second oldest did almost as well. She is 25 and still single and in college getting her teaching degree. She is somewhat loose in her living and has influenced her 2 younger sisters and they did some very stupid things. They both have records. The next one down, 23, sounds like you and she got pregnant " at age 17 just fooling around with guys." She eventually married him and it ended in a pending divorce. She had one other child and because she knew more than us continued behaving badly and had her child prematurely. 4- 1/2 years later the baby died. She left her husband about 8 months ago but not before getting pregnant one more time. Funny thing is now she says she needs help. The youngest,21 in April, was arrested several times because the guy she hung with loved her and stealing for him, at the time, was what he wanted her to do. He got off the hook for squealing her out! She eventually got married to a great guy and has a baby boy about 5 months old. All this could have been avoided if they would have stayed away from boys. For me I learned from my oldest brother why to wait. He's been married 5 times. I got married when I was 28. I am the only one of 5 children only married one time. I listened to the advice of older wise people who had my best interests in heart. It may seem like they don't trust you but it is the guys whom they don't trust. They are right. If you would talk to my girls NOW they would agree. And to tell you the truth, the longer you wait to date the greater the chance you will find Mr right. If you get hooked up with the wrong crowd "he" may not be interested in knowing you any better. The worst that can happen is you will miss getting your heart broke!
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