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ME n my gf and the guy friend?


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 9:17 pm

i mean me n my gf love eachother, n her friend whos a guy lovesmy gf too but my gf told him there only frds but hes still loves her anyways n were fighting for her love. she loves me , n hes starting to fall for me too n now i feel like im in a love triangle and i dont know whut to adivice him or myself or figure out who loves who when she says she loves me n she only sees him as a frd n he loves her n hes falling for me too n i dont love him just her <my gf) whut should i or we do ? do we let her choose? let her go? or trying fighting for her? i mean there is soo much more to this story but i can only be here for a lil lol i can be here all day but this is the strach of the top.

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these two guys


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 6:07 pm

ive had the boyfriend im going out with now for about 4 months and i realllly like him but its hard to see him because my family doesnt know about him and if they did find out about him they wouldnt like it because he is 18 and im younger. but when i do see him im always soo happy. and he aways makes me happy and hes really amazing. but hes going away to college about a couple hours away and hes still gonna come up here and i told him were still gonna stay together but i really dont know how thats gonna work. and right now im kinda cheating on him but i havent done anything and he doesnt know and i feel sooo quilty about it and he told me the only way he will ever break up with me is if i lie to him or cheat on him and yeah.

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Am i getting the wrong messages?


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:34 pm

I would really appreciate some older people's advice for this question.
I've known this family for 12 years now (friends with the daughter) but we grew apart a little through the years. Recently however the mum of my friend suddenly said to my mum that my friend's brother saw me recently and thought i was 'gorgeous' as his mum put it. I got talking to him and we really connected as we have so much in common.

Recently his sister and mum have told me he's really into me. The problem is that to me, he doesn't seem a bit interested in me in that way as we only text every now and again and it's literally about 3 texts max. I really like him and generally want to know if he does actually like me as i'm confused about the s...

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It's time


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:24 pm

I've been going out with my bf for 2 months nd okay that doesnt seem long but we've been best friends for alot longer. He's had sex before but i haven't. I've never thought i was ready until now. But i think he feels that he is pressuring me into having sex. If i say i'm ready he's like right okay but are you completely sure nd all tht. Plus some of my friends think he is just with me for sex so i think this is putting him off because he wants to prove them wrong. I leave for my holiday a week tomorrow. And the only day i'll get to see him is thursday. I think i want to have sex with him then. But how do i tell him that without sounding weird. I've been told that when you have sex you just want more. So i'm scared incase like he'll be gag...

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break up.


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:12 pm

what do you do when you broke up with someone you really loved, and really loved you, and you miss them like crazy and would do anything to have them back and for things to be the same again, but you finally just had enough of the BS after chance after chance after chance, and you know it's for the best to not be with them, because the relationship has changed so much and all you do is fight about the same things over and over, but you [both] just want those good times back soo bad, you can't stand it. how do you deal ?

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BestFriend/Boyfriend


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:05 pm

I've been going out with my bf for 2 months now. Even though it's not been that long it feels like it has been because we have been best friends for about a year now like we know everything about each other. I think i love him. But if i say that too anyone they would laugh because we've only been together for 2 months.
I'm scared incase he'll be the same.

When he was with his last girlfriend he cheated on her while on holiday for 3 weeks during the summer. They had alot of problems though. And not this summer i'm going on the same 3 weeks holiday. Obviously i'm not going to cheat on him, i couldn't. And to be honest i don't think he could either. But i'm scared incase when i come back everything will have changed or i...

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help


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 2:11 pm

Last night I had this dream about this guy I used to really like. I guess you could say we were going out, but it did'nt last long cause I had to move. I mean we went on one date, held hands and stuff. Well we both really liked each other alot. I guess I never really got any closure cause I was stupid and was too scared to even talk to him before I moved, but I really miss him. and I dont he's still on my mind alot. Little things still remind me of him. I dont know it's just kind of bugging me. Any thought or advice on and for this? It'd be greatly appreciated. Please and thankyou in advance.

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3 years...


Posted Friday June 20 2008, 1:11 pm

there is this boy that i have liked for 3 years and i was to young for him and i didnt want to get him in trouble but we flirted a lot. he started dating a girl and she would get mad when he would talk to me. so we kinda just keep distant recently we started hanging out all the time and talking again. we still flirt all the time. i am moving to missouri on tuesday and he lives in ohio.. i dont want to leave him everything is like perfect between he and i. i cried on the phone last night when he made me promise not to lose contact with him. tonight might be the last time i see him for a long time. if not monday. i mean i am moving back here in about 10 months. but i dont want to lose him again

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best place to meet guys.


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 11:53 pm

i really want a summer love. i've never had one. any love actually. but i know im ready and i really want someone to cuddle with and stuff. so my question is where is the best place to meet guys who are friendly and perferably single for a 16 year old girl to meet? thanks.

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my friend doesn't know...


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 11:52 pm

okay so i've been like crushing on this guy for almost 4 months. i haven't really showed it and i know him really well because he is like my best friend. well now it's summer and i have been showing him by flirting that i am interested. well now a girl moved back and he likes her! it's depressing. anywho i need to know how to make him understand that i want him. and how do i get him to like me and ditch her?

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after more than a year is it still love?


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 11:16 pm

Hey im 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. We have been dating off and on for about a year and a half. I do love him very much. We just argue all the time and fight about the most little things. Everytime we try to break up we end up getting back together. I do love him but im not sure if im in love with him. We've been through alot together i just dont want to end up married and me realizing that im not in love with him. How do i know if i still am??? Can somebody please tell me the signs i would have. Thanks soo much!

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Help!!!! My best friend just told me he liked me!


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 9:53 pm

What do I do???
A few years back I had the same situation happen with another one of my friends..See the thing is though I didn't like him more than a friend...Ever since he told me he loved me that friendship has never been the same...Well now its happening again...Another friend of mine just told me he liked me more than a friend...Thing is I don't like him more than a friend plus I have a boyfriend...I don't want to mess up the friendship but What can I do???
Please Help!

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naive


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 5:52 pm

so i've never been in a relationship before... i am 18/f..... i have many guy friends (some were even best friends) and i've been comfortable with them all (and they the same) yet... i've never had a boyfriend or been in a romantic relationship before... i am not bothered by it especially since i am the one being picky about who i should be with... i've always been content with limiting things to friendship.... and after a while i develop feelings and feel like they are just silly infatuations because i respect and enjoy the company of these guys... but usually i get over it (or screw up the friendship by backing off) today i was taking one of those personality disorder tests online and one of the questions they asked was what makes me the ...

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long distance


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 2:41 pm

this guy i like lives in florida
and i live in illinois
and i was wondering if i talk to him on the phone when i have verizon and he has tmobile will it like make my phone bill really high or will it be the same as like everymonth?

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Chase, or be caught?


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 2:08 pm

17/f

To begin, I don`t need a boyfriend - most times I don`t even want one. However, sometimes there`s just those summer nights when I`m sitting down at the beach when I wish I had someone to share it with. I think I`d make an awesome girlfriend if I had the chance.

I have five guys (that I know of) who say they like me. I rarely talk to them, but all of a sudden they`re all wanting to get to know me. Out of the mix, there is one guy who is someone that I`d potentially like to get to know.

Here`s the catch. I like a guy who I`ve ever only spoken to once.. on facebook. I know, right? Ridiculous. He went to my school for eight months but never got to know anyone other than his sports teammates. Now...

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Love Triangle?


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 2:45 am

How does a love triangle work? It dosent make sense to me. Lets say theres a boy, M who likes a girl N who likes a boy O who likes a girl P who likes M. Isnt that a square? How do you get a triangle?

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marriage..


Posted Thursday June 19 2008, 2:41 am

How does a wedding work with a mute? I really want to get married.. with family and friends around but it makes me so unhappy that it probably won't even happen... I don't want to go to a courthouse to sign papers stating that I'm married.

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What is wrong with me?!


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 11:51 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating three years on Saturday. We love each other more than anything, and we want to be together for the rest of our lives, as long as we're still happy and all that. We realize we're still young, but we hope we'll stay together for... ever. Haha.

Anyway, we're not much like other couples. We don't have sex. We do most other things, but not the sex. We both know we're too immature for that just yet (even though he's 18 and I'm almost 18 as well). We live in a smaller city, and there's honestly not much to do around here. But we try to have as much fun as possible together. The thing is, I have conflicting ideas.. with myself. I love when we lay there and cuddle and all that, but then I think of h...

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best friend liking you


Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 11:15 pm

I am 16 and a guy.. My best friend just told me that she liked me. We have been friends for a while but I don't know what to do. It gets akward when we are around the group and I don't know if we should take it farther. I need some advice.

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Posted Wednesday June 18 2008, 10:47 pm

what are other ways to please a guy than just giving blow jobs or hand jobs.

its getting repetitive with me and my boyfriend lol.

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