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What is wrong with me?!
My boyfriend and I have been dating three years on Saturday. We love each other more than anything, and we want to be together for the rest of our lives, as long as we're still happy and all that. We realize we're still young, but we hope we'll stay together for... ever. Haha.
Anyway, we're not much like other couples. We don't have sex. We do most other things, but not the sex. We both know we're too immature for that just yet (even though he's 18 and I'm almost 18 as well). We live in a smaller city, and there's honestly not much to do around here. But we try to have as much fun as possible together. The thing is, I have conflicting ideas.. with myself. I love when we lay there and cuddle and all that, but then I think of how much fun it'd be to go ride bikes or just play around outside. And I know he'd have much more fun doing the outdoor things. He gets bored with laying around, and then I get mad because it makes me feel like he doesn't love me and all that craziness, even though I know he does, and that it's my fault we're stuck inside just laying around. I have no idea what to do. I've never been so thrown in my life, haha. Any help here?
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I know exactly how you feel.I love laying inside w. my boyfriend and just simply watching a movie or even just laying there because you can feel the love.But then when you do outdoor things yall are more concentrated on the activity and not being close.I say you just do what you want and tell him yall should get out more.Just because yall wouldnt be right w. each other doesnt mean yall dont love each other.Hope this helps
xo southern
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It seems that you're having a strong and healthy relationship there, but talking from a younger person's point of view i might be wrong.
From what I'm seeing, both of you are reserving sex for a bigger occasion, which is good from where I stand.
I'd say, if you want to to outside, or do whatever, then tell him. Ask him if he thinks the same. If he's getting bored of just laying around, maybe he wants to do something else too.
I hope this helps =]
Kkytha - 14/f
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