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BestFriend/Boyfriend


Question Posted Friday June 20 2008, 4:05 pm

I've been going out with my bf for 2 months now. Even though it's not been that long it feels like it has been because we have been best friends for about a year now like we know everything about each other. I think i love him. But if i say that too anyone they would laugh because we've only been together for 2 months.
I'm scared incase he'll be the same.

When he was with his last girlfriend he cheated on her while on holiday for 3 weeks during the summer. They had alot of problems though. And not this summer i'm going on the same 3 weeks holiday. Obviously i'm not going to cheat on him, i couldn't. And to be honest i don't think he could either. But i'm scared incase when i come back everything will have changed or it won't be the same.

He's started working now aswell, i don't work, but it's weird because we're finding it hard to see each other. Obviously we do see each other nd tht and when we do its great we have a great time. Will the stage of not seeing each other as much being annoying pass? because we were with each other like everyday so its just a bit weird


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lilcrazisoutherngrl answered Friday June 20 2008, 11:11 pm:
all i have to say is just to trust him,people make mistakes but its the past & who knows he could be differant.I also know how you feel about the work situation,my boyfriend im dating now has a job and i dont and yeah i did worry at first but it all works out in the end,yall will have time to see each other.Getting a job is just part of life and isnt meant to hurt anyone.Hope this helps!!
xo southern

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Psycotheis answered Friday June 20 2008, 4:36 pm:
You should atleast stay in contact as much as possible just to keep the relationship there, even if you can't find a way to be together.

Plan stuff together. Planning allows both of you time to be with each other at good moments and without spontanious interuption. It also allows you guys to hang out on times where nothing gets in the way, such as work. If you guys plan well ahead and plan well, its possible to even vacation together.

But again if you can't, its best to atleast keep in contact whether it be phone or email

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