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It's time
I've been going out with my bf for 2 months nd okay that doesnt seem long but we've been best friends for alot longer. He's had sex before but i haven't. I've never thought i was ready until now. But i think he feels that he is pressuring me into having sex. If i say i'm ready he's like right okay but are you completely sure nd all tht. Plus some of my friends think he is just with me for sex so i think this is putting him off because he wants to prove them wrong. I leave for my holiday a week tomorrow. And the only day i'll get to see him is thursday. I think i want to have sex with him then. But how do i tell him that without sounding weird. I've been told that when you have sex you just want more. So i'm scared incase like he'll be gagging for it if we do before i leave because the next time we'll be able to after that is 3 weeks if that makes sence lol
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wow, nice bf. he's trying to look at for you and your best intrests. he's probably looking after his too. you said he's had sex before; if the circumstances under which he engaged in sex did not make happy memories, than he's probably going to be a bit more thoughtful about it this time around. you and he should just take your time. before you do have sex, you both need to have a frank disscusion with each other about concrecption, STDs, and sexual boundries (anal? oral? etc).
also, many men (and women for that matter) think that it feels better without a condom. don't forget, nothing protects against STDs and hiv but condoms. once you become sexual active you need to start see a doctor for an annual pap smear. if you have any reason to believe that you've caught something, see a doctor right away. waiting and finding out you've caught somehting later can risk your chances of having a baby later on (should you want one).
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ok i think you should wait is your heart telling you you are ready or just your mind. there is consequences to this action not only will you be mentally changed but there are serious causes to this how do you know he doesnt have an STD or just becuase you you used protection doesnt mean you wont get pregnant and when you break up and get a boyfriend that could be your husband one day would you like to tell him that you gave up your mind body and soul to this one person who you thought you loved. how do you feel that your boyfriend has been with another girl.? in that situation put it to the guy that your going to marry one day. really think about this i dont think your ready and neither does your boyfriend at least wait a year. your only gone for a week.
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