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ME n my gf and the guy friend?
i mean me n my gf love eachother, n her friend whos a guy lovesmy gf too but my gf told him there only frds but hes still loves her anyways n were fighting for her love. she loves me , n hes starting to fall for me too n now i feel like im in a love triangle and i dont know whut to adivice him or myself or figure out who loves who when she says she loves me n she only sees him as a frd n he loves her n hes falling for me too n i dont love him just her <my gf) whut should i or we do ? do we let her choose? let her go? or trying fighting for her? i mean there is soo much more to this story but i can only be here for a lil lol i can be here all day but this is the strach of the top.
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well, firstly, why do would you need to let her choose? if she says youre the only one for her and that she sees him as JUST a friend, give her some credit, trust her...but make sure you can... is there trust in this relationship? do you guys REALLY love eachother? if so, i'd tell your girlfriend whats going on between you and him...instead of keeping her in the dark and her finding out, then more mayhem occurs.. tell her wat going on is simply he's coming in between the relationship, and that you feel uncomfortable because it should be JUST you and her, not her you and HIM. i think the problem here is that he's falling for BOTH of you, which can turn into a competition.. and if you yourself are bi, she can possibly think "cheating". talk to her...i urge it.. good luck hunni!!!!
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dude..so this guy is bisexual? there nothing wrong with being bisexual..but...consider this as a challenge..hunny you LOVE this woman don't you? In the factor of Love comes the factor of trust along with it..
You trust her..you know you do. Don't let this little challenge disturb your relationship with the woman you love!
Trust me..this is a small situation that your dealing with..Lets just thank the lord that you and you lady aren't fighting! and that it's just this man whose making everything chaotic..
And also i'm 99.9% positive that this woman would not bother wasting her time with a person that she doesn't love and would think of an excuse to run off with that man who loves her..so she does love you..and you just gotta trust her.. She only likes you because if she didn't ...then why would she still be wasting her time with you? :P
know what i mean?
She already did choose you! She's still with you as of today isn't she? you've already asked her if she liked him right?
FIGHTING FOR HER? LIKE I SAID YOU ALREADY HAVE HER! :p
you both need to work together.. tell this man how happy you both are with e.o and how if anything he should not waste he's time no longer and should leave both of your love lives alone..
SIGH*
good luck!!
And remember let this advice/suggestion only HELP you..Never choose a decision because someone said to. No one knows you best on this website but you.. Were here to only help..
Best of luck!
Sincerely
-Serenity
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trust your girlfriend,if she says she only likes him as a friend than she means it..trust me.I deffinitally think youre winning this fight,just keep loving her and dont let that guy get in the way!!
xo southern
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