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really falling hard for him... 15/f
I just started my first job ever about 2 weeks ago, and it's a pretty boring job. I just stand around most the time. but I want to go to work because there's a guy who works there too. He's my age, really cute, and really really sweet. Its a tiny store, so there's like 5 people total who work there. I spend at least 4 hours a day (5 days a week) standing around talking to this guy, and I'm falling for him. Like bad. and I can't help it. It really would be better to just get over it, you know? but i don't think that's gonna happen. So what do i do? I flirt a bit, and we're just getting to know each other. but i am ABSOLUTELY not going to tell him how i feel unless he says it first (under no circumstances). So I guess my question is, how do i get him to fall for me?
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There is no reason to try to get over him!!Yall sound like yall are developing a relationship.Simply just ask him if he wants to hang out one day after work or when yall are off.Hanging out plus flirting is sure to end up with something great ;) goodluck!!
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Well, you can't MAKE a guy fall for you. But here is a similar question my friend answered that might help you out.
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From there:
"Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks."
That is completely true, and I'd advise you to do just that, and be yourself! =]
-Laura. (16-f) ]
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