there is this boy that i have liked for 3 years and i was to young for him and i didnt want to get him in trouble but we flirted a lot. he started dating a girl and she would get mad when he would talk to me. so we kinda just keep distant recently we started hanging out all the time and talking again. we still flirt all the time. i am moving to missouri on tuesday and he lives in ohio.. i dont want to leave him everything is like perfect between he and i. i cried on the phone last night when he made me promise not to lose contact with him. tonight might be the last time i see him for a long time. if not monday. i mean i am moving back here in about 10 months. but i dont want to lose him again
venom_97 answered Friday June 20 2008, 1:28 pm: I am not sure of what the question is, as there was no question asked.
I do know and understand what you are going through with moving and all when you have feelings for someone. Long distance relationships normally don't work out as planned,because of the distance. I think that you two may remain as friends, with occassional visits, but I also think that you two will see other people and eventually move on with your lives unless he moves where you are or you move where he is.
3 years is a long time to like someone, however if age was really a factor for you guys then you most likely didn't get the opportunity of having a true relationship openly with each other. With that being said, you are only expressing feelings of like, not love right? Regardless, of the hurt you feel or may feel upon moving, time does heal all. You said that you are moving back in 10 months. Try talking to him so that you establish a connection and plan of what you are going to be doing in the next 10 months. Are you going to remain as friends who like eachother? Are you going to try the long distance relationship thing to prepare for your return? Are you going to see other people and be honest about it with each other? There is much to find out so that you prepare yourself in dealing with it emotionally and mentally.
You need direction to where this is going. Try focusing on that instead of focusing on moving and losing contact, still remain real with yourself by not setting false pretenses. [ venom_97's advice column | Ask venom_97 A Question ]
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