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okay,
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 11:29 am
alright, sorry for the length in this, i just want you guys to know all the detail so you can give the best answer. Okay so the day before yesterday me and 3 friends went to the movies. 1 of my friends and me stayed outside with 3 guys. 1 of them, S, i like. We flirted all night, it was so obvious. Anyway, well he told 2 of my friends that he liked me and that he was going to get with me. Well, i liked him. but only since the day before yesterday. Well then, yesterday i knew he liked me and he knew i liked so it was aquward(sp) but my friends were trying to like convince him to talk to me, so he took me into this little place with a ton of flowers and was like, "you looked really pretty last night" and i said thanks. then he said,...
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<3 love, pain, the whole crazy thing <3
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 10:23 am
Ok well something has happened and i dont know how to feel. There is this guy but comes off as really immature, concieted, and just a plain jerk sometimes. But when we are alone he seems so sweet.
And he told my little brother, (they are friends) that he thought i was hott and was going on and on about how he couldnt wait to meet me. And when we did meet (he lives in my home state, i reside 6 hours away) he was asking me questions about me like my intrests and my hobbies. But if there were other girls around or his friends it was like i was a burden. And it really hurt. But at the same time it makes me want him more. All i ever tried to do was be friends with him, even though i wanted more. My dad said he is always asking about me ...
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This boy
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 2:50 am
13/f
So I'm in 8th grade and I like this guy at my church. I do talk to him but he usually comes up to me and talks. He is with his friends alot or talking to other people. I want help with this. How can I talk to him? Its really hard for me. Thanks!
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getting wet/cumming
Posted Sunday July 20 2008, 1:19 am
so today my boyfriend he fingered me and ate me out but when he fingered me we were in the water so he kept asking me if i was getting wet i g uess he just wanted to know.. idk if i was maybe i was but i feel bad because what if next time were out of the water and i dont get wet? is it not normal if a girl orgasms and doesnt get wet?
and also when he ate me out.. it felt like nice but for some reason it didnt do much to me and everyone always says its the best.. can someone explain this to me so i feel normal lol
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Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 11:21 pm
Me- 16-female
Boyfriend- 17-male
we've been dating for almost a year and my idea for our year since we havent taken many pictures was take one of the pictures we have and put it in a little frame for him and then put it in a box with a shirt he'd like along with our favorite candy that we purchase and eat together quite frequently which happens to be gummy worms & put a few bottles of his favorite pop and maybe an energy drink in there and give it too him that way does this sound like something you would enjoy to get?
would you give this to your boyfriend for your 1 year?
((moneys an issue for me))
which is why i cant go all out like he does for me.i love him
I'd also like to mabe right...
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which one?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 8:51 pm
16/f
hey guys, thanks in advance for your help
this boy sam and i used to hang out a lot and hook up and spend a lot of time together. we just clicked and everything about us seemed compadible. he went on vacation to florida and we kinda stopped talking for alittle while even after he got back. i started dating this boy paul, who i dated 3 years ago and we're so cute together and we get along really well. i feel like were in love, every chance we get we see eachother. and we are both really happy.
well the other day sam and i saw eachother at the local pool in my neighborhood and we got to talkign again and i realized that i really miss him.. he wants to see me and says he would do anything to spend some more time wit...
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Will it ruin the friendship?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 8:50 pm
I have a huge crush on this one guy, let's call him Logan. Anyway, Logan and I are pretty good friends and he dosn't know I like him. I don't think he likes me back and I'm afraid asking him out will hurt our friendship.
I also don't want to ask him out because one of my other friends, let's call her Jade, already went out with him and then broke out with him. She dosn't know I like him, but she made it clear to me she thinks friends shpuldn't date friends exboyfriends. I'm afriad asking Logan out will hurt my friendship with Jade too.
What should I do?
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kissing?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 8:50 pm
ok, its kind of bad, but i am 18 and have never been kissed... i met this one guy and i'm afraid of having my first kiss be bad because i've never done it, you know? anyway, how can i make sure that the guy does not know its my first kiss?
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regrets....
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 7:39 pm
I know everything happens for a reason but i honestly am so confused about this...
There was this guy last year named CJ and he was dating someone named Julia and i didnt want to start any drama but i really liked him and from what i could tell and what i heard he like me too. He always flirted with me and stared at me. At his graduation, he stared at me. Not his girlfriend. And because of myself not wanting any drama i kept my feelings private.
-Is this wrong???
Now all i do is think about what a chance i had, and why did I have to screw it up?? Saying i regret it is an understatement. But sometimes i see him driving down my street. Every time he sees me he just stops and stares, even when he is with...
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sex?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 7:14 pm
how is having sex defined?
like if he puts it in u does that count?
or does he have to actually cum in a condom? like i dont know what "counts" and what doesnt
thanks!
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Long Distance
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 4:37 pm
So ive been talking to this guy for about 3 months now and we have been long distance friends for about three years..he lives about an hr n half away from me in montana..we started talking again this summer..we would talk every nigh ton the phone even if i was on vacation..well a couple of weeks ago he started dating this girl..and i thought we were talking..i was planning on spending a couple of days w/ him but then he told me he was dating this girl..i was shocked i couldnt believe it..i told him i wanted him to be my first and now i feel stupid for saying that..what do i do about this situation? it makes me so angry
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who to choose!
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 3:07 pm
18 f
Okay, I will make a long story short, or try to. I'm really close with my best friend who is a guy, let's call him L and I've been dating this other guy, let's call him F.
I've been close friends with L for quite a few years now, we always hang out together and we have fun and he is a nice person. My bf on the other hand, I've been going out with him for a year now, the relationship isn't going anywhere and I've actually thought of breaking up with him for a while although he is a good guy, he has hurt me enough for me to want to give up on him.
To the point, L told me that he has been in love with me for the past year or so and that he has been trying to win me over for ages. This came to a shock for me, b...
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more than a hookup
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 2:48 pm
16/ f
i really really like my best guy friend and weve hooked up before, and he wants to again
and it seems like he likes me but i dont think he does but my question is how do i make him think of me as more than a hookup?
p.s. i already stoped hooking up with him a few months ago and i always say no now
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In Love with my bestfriend
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 2:44 pm
okay so me and this guy have been bestfriends since 7th grade (we are now going into sophmore year of highschool ) we went out in 7th grade for 3 months and then became bestfriends
well this summer weve hungout almost everyday and text everynight or talk on the fone for hours, im the only girl in his top 5 on his fone besides his sister and ugh i cant tell if he likes me too everyone says i should tell him but im way to afraid, i kno he thinks im good looking cause he wants to hook up with me.. so am i just a hookup or is there something else? please help!
thanks
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whats wrong with me?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 1:50 pm
i started dating this guy and its been almost a month.
hes really open with me and my family. he hasnt met my friends but im sure he'd be the same.
me on the other hand, im not shy because ive never acted this way. i can start a conversation with a toal stranger and go on for hours.
but when it comes to his friends or family, my mind goes blank and i just giggle or smile and thats it!
how do i get over this or what can i do to get over this? well i ever get over it?
he thinks im shy and afraid of what they will think of me. i honestly dont know?
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Questions on birth controll
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 1:44 pm
My boyfriend and I were talking, and we think we are ready to have sex, but we agreed that we have to have condoms and I need birth control, but neither of us really learned about it, so we had some questions.
1. To get it, I would need to go to a doctor right?
2. Do I have to bring my mom with me?
3. At the doctor's office, do I have to be a regular patient? because both of my parents work at a hospital, and I really don't want them to find out.
4. About how much does it cost?
5. Would it be a gynecologist that I have to see?
Thanks so much for helping!!
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a cd for him?
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 1:33 pm
i want to make s cd of songs for my boyfriend. he's 20. he likes ALL types of music as far as I know. Except maybe like scremo, oldies, blues and etc.
i dont want them to be all cute little love songs but id like some in there :)
so we meet at work, he was nervous but he asked me out. we had a good time together. started dating a bit after a couple dates. its only been a month since we've been together. yes we have said i love you. he will be leaving to california for college in september.
^all that i just listed^ because this song
"theres nothing" by sean kingston is one that will be on my cd i give him. and also bc u can have a little idea of songs that might have something to ...
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am i bi?? im confused
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 10:27 am
im 14 and i dont know if im bi, i think i like girls whenever i see i pretty girl i usaully think "shes pretty" and i cant just stop staring. i always wanted to kiss a girl but everyone i know is straight i licked a girls lip before and i kinda liked it so im confused.. well please help
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Inbetween two guys
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 6:30 am
15/f
This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on and be nothing more than friends with him, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was in a pissy mood. so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. Later that night i was talking to john and he snapped at me about how i wasnt p...
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Death and a breakup after six years
Posted Saturday July 19 2008, 5:09 am
I am a 32 year old female. I have recently lost my grandmother, and broke up with my boyfriend of six years, (my idea). I love him very much, and he is a good man. I have wanted to get married for a long time but he has not asked me. I have however talked to him about it, and told him how I feel about getting married. He is not outward with his emotions, but I know he loves me. Our sex life if very grim, and we hardly communicate. I feel that we are very close as friends but I want more from him. At the same time I am afraid I am loosing the most special thing in my life. I am afraid that I am making these decisions and dealing with this to cover up the real pain of loosing my grandmother. She raised me and we did everything togeth...
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