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Inbetween two guys
15/f
This is going to be a very confusing story, please bare with me haha.
Ok, so last weekend i hooked up with this guy John. John and I had been sort of a thing for like a couple weeks and this was the first time we've hooked up. Things were like fine between us for a few days but then he started excessively calling me and i got really annoyed and decided it was time to move on and be nothing more than friends with him, though he doesn't know that yet. This past saturday we were all out and john and i werent talking that much because he was in a pissy mood. so i just flirted alot with my good friend james who i like now, and he likes me. Later that night i was talking to john and he snapped at me about how i wasnt paying attention to him, and we kidn of worked things out. I have no idea what to tell john or even to follow through with things with james. what should i do?
ps. sorry its so confusing if you need me to explain further let me know. thank youuu
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John is obviously a much more serious individual than you are. It is obvious that you are looking for someone to have fun with, not necessairily someone who calls you 24/7. John on the other hand, seems to want someone who is always "paying attention to him", or alwyas talking to him. It makes sense that you don't particularily have a thing for John anymore - you have opposing views on relationships!
Let him know that for this reason, you should just be friends. Then, go for James!
Good luck =)
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well if you got annoyed with John then he should just be a friend. make sure you clearly tell him that so he knows. If you like James then follow things through with him. Just tell John you just want to be friends. Most guys hate when girls say that but if that's all you want to be then that is fine. I hope things work out!
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