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stupid boy!
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 3:46 pm
this will probably get a bit lengthy. I got a summer job at a small store, and there's a guy who works there who's about my age (he's 16, i'm 15) and he told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I told him that i liked him too, but i didn't really want to date anyone. As we got to know each other, i realized i didn't like him very much as anything but a friend. I figured he was getting over me and we could be friends, but then yesterday he told me that he was waiting until i felt ready to date. I don't want him to be waiting for me! I'm not gonna change my mind, and i don't want to deal with the pressure of knowing he won't date anyone but me.
What should I tell him? should i tell him that i don't like him anymore??? how do i ...
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sex
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 2:20 pm
so my boyfriend and I goof around a lot and yesterday he was asking me like lets just try to have sex and if it hurts i'll stop
the thing is im a virgin and he isn't and hasn't ever taken anyones virginity away so would it pop my cherry right away?
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long distance
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 1:02 pm
ok i have been talkin to this guy and he lives REALLY far away. I like him a lot and he likes me a lot. He is a very sensative guy and thats what i like. But were starting to get pretty serious. We both agreed already that we can't have a long distance relationship because face it...those never really work out. the thing is i don't want to stop dating other people and wait for him. But then again i would feel like i was cheating. Do you understand what i'm tryin to get to? I like this guy alot but i can't put my life on hold just for him but yet i feel if i dont i'm going to hurt him and in a way hurt myself. Do you see my dilema? I don't know what to say think or do about it.
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How do I ask him how he feels
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 12:39 pm
So I have had a thing with a guy for about 2 months now. We only hang out about once or twice a week. We have told eachother we like eachother and everything, but latley we have been talking less and less, and school is starting and we will be going to different schools. Hes a guy thats really hard to read and I know that he isnt the type to be a jerk or to use a girl, but I just don't know if he wants to date or just end this now as a summer fling, and I have no idea how to bring it up to him withought feeling stupid.
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ahhh
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 12:28 pm
ok very complicated! i don't know what sex appeal i've been sending out but its not something old!! three guys in one week have been showing excessive interest... the only reason that i am writing this because they are all eligible but none of them is making a direct move and i don't know which direction to go! today i told one of them that when he is done with his grading (he's a TA but it's ok because i am not taking a course with him and i graduate soon) so its fair ground... i guess i am not really asking anything but sort of need moral support..... my friend says the smile he gave when i said that was from face to face and he is kind of nice.... i am not expecting anything, but how do i know what his real reaction was to the whole situ...
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Messed up break up
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 12:21 pm
Me and my boyfriend broke up last week (Mon) because basically for the last two months he was having thoughts/feelings for my bestfriend and never told me. So we eneded it, yet i still have deep feelings as he does for me, but it wouldnt be right to take him back a second time. He states hes over her, but how can i be sure, he stopped communication with her for 2 months. Basically we werent really giving each other space, we were acting as if everything was normal. I asked him for space, and now i feel even more hurt and lonely than before, what do i do?
-Female, 15
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related or no?
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 11:39 am
okay so my cousin's, who is 26, parents got divorced when she was really young and her mom (who was married to my current uncle but i don't think is related to me) married another man (who is not related to me) and had my cousins half-brother. now the half-brother has casually been flirting with me + hinting at going out and such, but idk if we are related or not!? it's such a confusing family tree. any help?
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MORE CHARMING
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 5:23 am
how can a guy be more charming to a girl
im 13 and a male btw
so how can i be more charming and less annoying to my friends that are mostly girls who i want to be more charming and less annoying to
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Been seeing these to girls and dont know what to do
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 2:24 am
Ok so ive been seeing these 2 girls over teh last few weeks and im close to both of them and ive found that i like one alot more than the other the only catch is that ther really close friends and for some reason they havent told each other about me and i dont know how to tell the one with out ruining there friendship cause she's eventually gonna see us together.
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trying to get a girl that is my friend to see me as more
Posted Monday August 11 2008, 2:13 am
I have a girl that i know and we are friends and i would like to be more than friends but i dont want to risk loosing her as a friend if it doesnt work out.
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movies...
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 10:33 pm
this is gonna sound so lame but i've never been the the movies with a guy before and im going with one that i really like. he really likes me too. what should i expect to happen? and what should i do? like if he puts his arm around he do i lay on his shoulder ? please don't tell me whatever feels right cause i know that but like if we start kissing where do i put my hands and stuff? thats my main question. thank youu!
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another boyfriend problem..
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 10:10 pm
ok so as you all probably know by now me and my boyfriend have not been doing so well.
we live in different states and that makes it harder.
he hasnt called me since tuesday. and ive texted him and stuff but i got no text back but i think his phone ie off again.
and last night around 230 he called me from his friends phone (he lives with him) but i didnt feel like talking to him
cause later that day i took a nap and i woke up and went online and saw that he signed into myspace for the first time in like 3 days
but didnt even bother to message me saying anything
and i went to look at his top friends and this girl who ive had problems with him talking to her before, is first
he never put me bac...
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Boyfriend, best friend dilemma!
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 6:16 pm
Ok.
I started going out with my current boyfriend last december.
I like him a lot, but have lots of doubts (that's probably me and not him though).
I kissed my best friend, just the once when i was sleeping over hers.
Then again, when i slept over again.
Then we made out on a pile of kayaks. On the same night we made out on her floor while all our other friends were in the next room.
Needless to say I am lacking a backbone right now in terms of telling my boyfriend anything.
What the hell do I do? I let myself get into this situation. On a couple of the times I kissed my friend we'd had a LITTLE to drink, but nothing that would affect my rational thinking, I knew what I was doing, and I know ...
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Should I dump him?
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 5:54 pm
17/f
For about four months I've been going out with a really nice guy. I do somewhat like him, but he likes me a LOT more than I like him. He's really sweet but, to be honest, I'm bored.
Is this a reason to dump him, or should I stick it out and see what happens?
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making love the first time
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 5:43 pm
i was trying to explain to my boyfriend how the first time we "make love" or have sex i would like it to be special.. and i couldnt explain it in the right words.. tell me if you can relate and help me find better wording/explanation.. the first time i have sex i want it to feel more sensual then just the norm sex like i want to be on the bottum so i feel the man over me taking control then me just getting on top and doing my thing.. ( becuase it is said it feels better when the girl is on top and controls) but i really dont care what feels better i just want him to love me and control me i want to feel like the girl instead of holding myself over him feeling manly.. i cant explain that to him how can i word that its so hard to ge...
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how are you supposed to ask your bf if hes cheating on you?
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 2:58 pm
i asked a question on here last night and it was about how my bf acts like he loves me one minute and then acts like im just whoever. you know, someone to keep him busy.
one of the answers i got really disturbed me. someone said he might be seeing someone else, and i was just wondering:
like, how would you ask your boyfriend if hes cheating on you? how would you bring it into subject?
because ive been cheated on many times and i dont think i can take one more heartbreak, but i dont wanna be a pushover like i was the other times. i wanna be strong. but how can i?
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boyfriends birthday
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 10:49 am
15/f
Its my boyfriends borthday in about two weeks
im not a fantastic singer but to show him i love him i thought maybe i could sing for him
do you know an acocustic, easy songs that i could try
not too easy though because i want to impress him
this isnt the whole gift its only part of it :)
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how
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 2:24 am
i am not sure if it was flirting considering the nature of the initial relationship (he was my teacher in a course that i just took over the summer... no school problems attached here and that is what is confusing me because he is not a professor in college just a language course i am taking) but i am really kind of interested in this guy and i want to push it...
i don't know if he is a sleezball or if he is nice or if he's even as smart and unique as i'd like him to be... but i know he kind of understands my background... all i know is that i want someone and that someone could potentially be him...
in any case he seems interested in my background. in fact he asked me about myself on more than one occasion and he...
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not sure if he really loves me like he says
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 1:29 am
i dated this guy for about 3 months, and then we took a weeklong break, and now we've been together for about 3-4 weeks.
but i really broke down after he said he wanted a break, and i bawled right in front of him and everything. so im starting to think this is a pity deal.
we have sex and he says he loves me and invites me over a lot but sometimes he acts like he really doesnt want to see me. like we had plans to hang out yesterday and he ended up going to a movie with some friends. and we had these plans for a week in advance because i was on vacation.i tried to act like it didnt bother me that much, but it did. a lot.
and then today he said he wanted to hang out tomorrow and now hes saying that...
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lesbian, maybe? (hope not)
Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 1:16 am
ok this might sound kinda odd, but im a little confused about my orientation.
like. im homophobic, and my friends are always kidding around and saying that im just "scared of what i really am" but i know they are just kidding around.
but the other day i started thinking and my boyfriend and i have sex and stuff but we always keep the covers over us, and i dont really wanna see his penis. ive never seen one and it just gives me a weird gut feeling if i see one. like, you know the feeling you get when you're nervous? well, a little like that, with a side of nausea.
i hate being like this because i really dont wanna be gay and lesbians scare me and i love my boyfriend to death but im just so confused!!
HELP!!!
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