|
MORE CHARMING
how can a guy be more charming to a girl
im 13 and a male btw
so how can i be more charming and less annoying to my friends that are mostly girls who i want to be more charming and less annoying to
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
From there:
1. A good sense of humor.
- A good sense of humor is always beneficial. And not a stupid "that's what she said!" sense of humor, somebody who can genuinely make an original joke. Making a girl laugh is one of the best things you can do in an effort to "win her heart".
2. Intelligence.
-Being smart is good, too. Us girls don't want to talk to somebody who can't count higher than 10, or who doesn't understand what's happening in the world. You don't have to be a total know it all, just smart enough to hold a decent conversation.
3. Nice guys.
- Nice guys DON'T finish last. If you compliment a girl, chances are she won't forget it any time soon. However, if you're mean to a girl, she'll remember for A LOT longer.
4. A good appearance.
- I'm not going to lie and don't think I'm shallow, but looks are all you have to go on for the first few minutes of knowing somebody. So if you're shirts half untucked, your shoes are untied, and your hair is unbrushed and a mess, chances are girls won't be into it.
5. Showing interest/having similar interests.
- I cannot tell you how attractive it is when I'm talking to a guy and he asks my favorite band, and the replies with, "I love The Rocket Summer, too!" Ask questions, and tell her when you like something she likes. If you have a lot in common, your relationship will go a lot farther than if you have nothing in common.
-Laura (16-f)
]
Okay, first off, don't over-do the "nice guy" thing. It's rare to find people that actually care in this world, but trying too hard just makes things worse. Just try to relax. Everyone likes a good listener. You will surprise your friends when you show them that you are genuinely interested in their lives and can remember things that they have told you!
More importantly, don't be afraid to compliment them. If you notice that their hair/eyes/clothes look nice, let them know! It will brighten their day AND keep you out of the "friend-only zone" when they realize you might be attracted to them. Good luck and take it easy, and just to put it into perspective: you have YEARS and YEARS to get good at it!
**TheGivingTree
]
well the most obvious things would be:
-smell nice (not axe, but with like a manly smelling shampoo and deodorant)
- if you have nice teeth, smile alot
-make witty ( non-a**hole-ish) comments that show off your smart/ funny side
- be confident but not in a "dbag-i-just-want-to-get-into-your-pants kinda way
-CASUALLY let them know that you are sweet, sensitive and skilled with statements starting like "So I was making my mom dinner last night and..."
and if you need anymore tips on how to dazzle and charm a girl, just look up Edward Cullen, as he has dazzled millions and he isn't even real...
]
Just be yourself, As far as girls go just be the "nice guy". Smile and say Hi ask them how they are doing, Casual conversations ;)
-Bahaima22
]
More Questions: |