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not sure if he really loves me like he says


Question Posted Sunday August 10 2008, 1:29 am

i dated this guy for about 3 months, and then we took a weeklong break, and now we've been together for about 3-4 weeks.

but i really broke down after he said he wanted a break, and i bawled right in front of him and everything. so im starting to think this is a pity deal.

we have sex and he says he loves me and invites me over a lot but sometimes he acts like he really doesnt want to see me. like we had plans to hang out yesterday and he ended up going to a movie with some friends. and we had these plans for a week in advance because i was on vacation.i tried to act like it didnt bother me that much, but it did. a lot.

and then today he said he wanted to hang out tomorrow and now hes saying that he has MORE plans tomorrow and might not be able to.

am i just being obsessive/paranoid? or is he actually going out with me because he doesnt wanna see me cry/hurt my feelings?


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dulce8nina answered Sunday August 10 2008, 6:46 am:
umm if he's trying to only se you when he wants & is trying to keep you in his house instead of hanging with you somewhere else other than indoors,then maybe its not much of a pity deal...maybe its sex.
i think eigther he's using you just for sex when he wants it or he's with you like you say to not hurt you but eigther way you need to understand
your being hurt anyways.
make your choise & do whats best for you
:))
im sorry if it sounds mean ;//
b4 you do anything talk 2 him & ask him 2 be straight forward with you but be strong when your asking him because if you show weakness he might lie.

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HEALER answered Sunday August 10 2008, 2:08 am:
He most likely have another girl and most likely using you both or more then two, how old are you, can't you see he is playing games with you. sorry but it's very noticeble.


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