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my bf and i


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 11:44 pm

ok so my bf isnt the romantic type. all he cares abt is sex. but i really like him. wat should i do? i really dont wanna break up with him.

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home school outcast?


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 11:35 pm

I'm 18 and I was home schooled since 4th grade...

I was wondering what everyone on here thought about relationships, because I never went to public school and I've never really had a boyfriend before that has ever really worked out and I want some input...

I'm not sure what's okay and what's not. My friends boyfriends, in my opinion, were always not very good because when they were dating my friends (and some that are still together to this day) they will/would tell other girls like "hey sexy!" and "i love you too and I miss you too" like on their myspaces and stuff and through text messages. And there was a guy I was talking to while back that would say I love you to his ex g.f and he told...

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boyfriend's birthday!


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 10:48 pm

Heyy my boyfriends birthday is in september and i pretty much have it all planned out.

I'm gonna give him a $50 gift card to Hollister (it's pretty much all he wears)
And i'm gonna get him some chocolate covered pretzles cause i know they're his favorite.
Then I want to take him to south street in philly cause it's his favorite place, and while there I can take him to go get a philly cheese steak cause that's his favorite food!

Do you think this sounds good?
I would LOVE to hear your ideas and suggestions!
Thanks everyone!

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Getting a guy to take a hint...


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 6:52 pm

There's a guy that I've had my eye on. He's a drum major in my band...

Problem is, I've only "kinda sorta" known him for the past 2 years, and I haven't started liking him til now. I want him to notice because I think we might have a chance at something, but I don't know how to go about it without making it obvious. So far I say hi to him like every day when I see him- but he's always so busy since he's drum major and all. So we've never actually had a true conversation, just little bits and pieces of one. How do I get him to notice me?? He gets a lot of attention being in the position he is, so how can I make myself stand out without looking desparate? :)

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I can't take it anymore...


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 6:26 pm

I'm 16/female.

I have an amazing boyfriend with some serious trust issues! Every time I turn around he's moping around telling me not to ever talk to another guy, even if I don't even talk to them! Last year and now recently I've fallen hard for this one guy from Band. He's a total sweetie, but I have problems talking to him in person.

What do you think I should do?
I really don't know what exactly I need help with...
I just want to know if you were in the position, what would you do?

:/

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Should i worry or not


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 4:20 pm

I am with a girl now that had cheated on her previous boyfriend with me and now i work a 3 week on 3 week off rotation which puts me out of state for weeks at a time and its been eating at me that she might be cheating on me while im away. what should i do? im lost.

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same class.


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 3:49 pm

15/f
This guy i like is in one of my classes and we talked for like a week over the summer but he ended up having to go do something so we couldn't talk anymore. I don't know if he still likes me or not but today in class he waved to me and said hi and we had a short convo. But i am SUPER shy and every time i talk to someone i'm comfortable around my stomach hurts and my voice is REALLY shaky. He came over to me and my friends to talk to us but he was mainly talking to my friends because i was just standing there not talking. I get really shy.

Also, this isn't really part of the question but he has ALOT of friends that are girls and i will see him talking to them all the time and i know i shouldn't be jealous but he p...

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Silly comments about my bum


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 3:19 pm

haha, my boyfriend well he really loves my butt (it's a kinda big),says so all the time. But he says some thing that are a little hurtful, like they don't hurt my feelings really I'm just not used to someone saying things like "You have a fat ass" or 'Damn, girl you have a nice big butt". haha, I remember once when I was sitting on his lap he was all 'Oh is my phone hurting you" I was like "Nope", he goes "Yeah, probably all that padding" he says it though, in a loving way. Its not rudly spoken.
I don't know what to think, it is a compliment right?

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Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 3:01 pm

ok i been going out wit my boyfriend for a yr and 2 months.
but now he left to the dominican republic..nd everytime i call him he is never there.i dont know what to think,sometimes i think that he is just cheeting on me.because his brother got a myspace and he cheks it every 4 days,then why cant my boyfriend do that and ask why did i called or something..?
omg im confuse nd sad please give me some really good advice,thank you

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hurt feelings?


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 1:50 pm

I'm 13.. but there is this 16 year old which i knew. when i was depressed, i told her about my problems. but i really like her. she's really beautiful here is a picture: http://www.femaleemohaircuts.com/images/female-emo-hairstyle.jpg

but when i really like some one i start lying because i think they don't like me because I'm bisexual. but my parents (who hate emo's) told her i lied for attention. now she doesn't talk to me anymore. i want to tell her what i feel and that i didn't lie for attention.. i lied to get in her heart. i know she's 3 years older then me but.. I'm bisexual so just like i think different sexes are just difference in appearance, i think age is just a difference in experience in live. i want to tell her...

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Describing the word love


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 1:42 pm

I would really like people to explain to me, what you personally feel like love is. I'm not saying I'm in love, I just want to know what everyone thinks it is and how they describe it. I would like to know maybe stuff he does, or the way you feel, did it last? did you get hurt?

I know this sounds completely pointless, but everyone askes if their in love, I just want to know how other people see love through their eyes.

Thanks sorry if this makes no sense :)

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Flirt Buddy.


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 3:16 am

Okay so Saturday was Old Home Day, and I was hanging out with Becky,Steven,Abby,Emily,Kim,and Abbys lil brother. Well at the moment Beckys dating Steven but she doesnt like him, she just didnt want to hurt his feelings.Well we were all hanging out I guess I was flirting with Steven... Becky couldnt careless though so Im not worried about that. In town, Steven baught me fries and we traded a 20 for 2 tens and the guy who gave us the two tens was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around your finger!"Because Steven gave me ten bucks and told me he'd be right back he was gunna go buy some icecream. And I was like =O Hes not my boyfriend! And the guy was like Even better..
And at Byrant Feild I wore Stevens sweatshirt, and we...

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What to do now, Been eating at me for awhile


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 1:46 am

Ok me and this girl are really good friends and one day she cheated on him with me but we decided it was a mistake cause she had a boyfriend and i didnt want to push it. so we remained really good friends then she tells me she broke up with her boyfriends this is weeks later by the way and i dont know if i should try and be more than friends again?

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Love maby who knows


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 1:24 am

I think i may have fell for one of my very good friends but im not sure if its just cause i like hanging out with her and she is one of the coolest girls i know. We were close once but it was complicated and ever sense then we've just been friends like it never happened.I've been thinking about this for awhile and i just dont know what to do act on it or dont risk the friendship or dont. Im lost


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re do piercing


Posted Tuesday August 12 2008, 1:15 am

i had my belly button pierced. but then the ring fell out and i didnt notice it because i was shopping for a new one. but now i still want it pierced, how long do i wait and will it hurt or what?

anything about re piercing my belly button let me know please thank you!!!

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Is He Into Me??


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 10:38 pm

Ok so basically ive been at my job sense februray of this year. When i started working there, everyone told me my manager was gay, but something about him didnt seem gay at all. Time went by, I got to know him, he still didn't seem gay, until we got a shift manager who was clearly gay. Everyone said they were dating, and for a while, i believed it. However, I always thought he was incredibly attractive and often would dream of him. Recently, the dreams started getting more and more frequent until they were every night. I tried showing him some interest at work but I really wanted to keep my feelings from a distance-based level, until one night, my brother found out I had a crush on him and sent him a sexual text message from my phone withou...

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A Good Relationship --> Breakup, Very Confused.


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 9:22 pm

16/m

In the middle of May, I really became attracted to my friend Sean. I confided in one of my best friends about it, and she told me to tell him. I did, and he told me he had "a bonafide crush" on me as well. So, we started to date. The chemistry at then was great. We could both tell how much we were into each other, and the relationship blossomed.

About a month ago, something changed. All of a sudden he seemed...distant? At this point, I "loved him", and yes I'm young,I can't really love him, but I think I did/do. Everytime I'd hear his voice, my heart would skip a beat, I loved being w. him, and in his arms. It was just like heaven. He had these moments though, where he was so ...

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What kind of physical aggressiveness is good in a girl?


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 5:38 pm

My boyfriend said he likes girls who get physically aggressive about the little things...how do you interpret that? I know he wasn't talking about anything directly sex-related.

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am i in love?


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 5:13 pm

15/m

ok i've been on and off about this a couple times i'm not sure if i am in love ok well she's one of my best friends and i think about her A LOT and whenever i see her or talk to her i get butterflies and i dream about her constantly (not wet dreams)lol and when i hear a love song i think about her and sometimes cry so is it true love?

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How to get rid of someone you love.


Posted Monday August 11 2008, 5:03 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months now. And i love him to death. He just does so many things that upset me. I went on vacation and he went to the club, when he knows how i feel about that. He'll invite me over then drive his friends around untill 4:00 in the morning. He barelly ever says nice things about me or to me, but he comments on every other girl. He wont talk to me when im trying to have a serious conversation. He never calls me back when he says hes going too. But.. He does things i like. He can make me smile when im sad, i love the way he holds me, and watches movies with me. I love how he cute he is. But honestly i dont think im happy with him. I know i have to do whats best for me. But i really do love him and i cant let him go. What do i do. Please help me.

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