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ok i been going out wit my boyfriend for a yr and 2 months.
but now he left to the dominican republic..nd everytime i call him he is never there.i dont know what to think,sometimes i think that he is just cheeting on me.because his brother got a myspace and he cheks it every 4 days,then why cant my boyfriend do that and ask why did i called or something..?
omg im confuse nd sad please give me some really good advice,thank you
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He probably is just busy. Why don't you ask his brother what is going on? You never know he might just be out making friends and seeing whats out there. There are many reasons for a boy to not call you back. Just make sure you don't jump to conclusions and make him angry. Long distance relationships are hard.
I hope I helped!
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hey sweetie.
i'm so sorry about your boyfriend. he seems really irresponsible for ignoring you like he is when you care so much about how he's doing. i know it must be hard. how long has he not been responding? if it's been over a week, you have to first give him a real strict talk when he gets back or when you can talk to him again. you have to tell him how much it bothers you and pains you that he's ignoring you and not calling you back or answering his phone. it's very rude and obnoxious. if he says "i'm so sorry i'll never happen again" and it happens again, you need to break up with him. what is a relationship without proper communication and only broken promises?
hope all goes well. feel free to inbox me again if you have anymore questions.
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so you are in a long distance relationship? i'm assuming he just left. long distance relationships are really hard work. have you confronted your boyfriend about why he never calls or wants you to call. if he is asking you why you called that is definately weird and suspicious. do you have trust issues at all? if someone has betrayed your trust in the past or cheated on you or something that may be effecting the relationship with your current boyfriend. it definately sounds like hes not paying you enough attention. so tell him how you feel and try and get an honest answer out of him. but don't be like "OMG YOUR CHEATING ON ME" because then he will probably just blow you off and call you a psycho bitch, and thats never good lol. just tell him you feel neglected and a good boyfriend would want to talk to his girl. and if he doesn't treat you right your gone. so he better treat you right. :/ i hope i somewhat answered your question if you want to talk more messege me here, email me: lostinmyundefinedsoul@yahoo.com or hit me up on myspace: myspace.com/xxxxxxxxxlostxxxxxxxxx
<3 sara
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You have to ask yourself, is this boy truly worth worrying this much about.
If hes putting forth no effort to stay in touch with you, why do the same for him?
I think you need to examine this relationship, because it sounds like its not strong enough to deal with the distance
However, if you do get in touch with him then maybe you can set up a few times throughout the week when you both can set time out and talk with eachother. If he truly loves you a 20 minute phone call three times a week and setting up a myspace page shouldn't be that big of a deal.
it will all work out in the end
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