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I can't take it anymore...
I'm 16/female.
I have an amazing boyfriend with some serious trust issues! Every time I turn around he's moping around telling me not to ever talk to another guy, even if I don't even talk to them! Last year and now recently I've fallen hard for this one guy from Band. He's a total sweetie, but I have problems talking to him in person.
What do you think I should do?
I really don't know what exactly I need help with...
I just want to know if you were in the position, what would you do?
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Hi,
First of all having a few years on you, I can tell you right now that you are much too young to be in a serious relationship. Of course you are going to be attracted to other guys.
If he has trust issues now and telling you who you can and can't talk to, it's going to continue.
He's not so amazing if he's doing that.
I think you should take some time and focus on who you are and what you want out of yourself and a boyfriend.
Do you like the way you feel when he dictates to you? Nip it in the bud now.
Good Luck.
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If your boyfriend is being really controlling of you, and you've talked to him about it, I would just dump him.
You shouldn't feel like you're married when you're a teenager. Sure, you shouldn't just go around and play the field either, but if your boyfriend is completely against you talking to any guy whatsoever, well that's just wrong.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Dump him. He's being way too controlling of you and he knows he's doing it, because you talked to him before.
Any guy who won't let you talk to ANY other male isn't worth your time. It would be reasonable if he wanted you to avoid, say, an ex of yours that still had feelings for you, but what he's demanding is unreasonable.
Seriously, you don't deserve this. If I were you I wouldn't put up with any of this guy's crap, ever.
-LM
[16/f]
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