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Is He Into Me??
Ok so basically ive been at my job sense februray of this year. When i started working there, everyone told me my manager was gay, but something about him didnt seem gay at all. Time went by, I got to know him, he still didn't seem gay, until we got a shift manager who was clearly gay. Everyone said they were dating, and for a while, i believed it. However, I always thought he was incredibly attractive and often would dream of him. Recently, the dreams started getting more and more frequent until they were every night. I tried showing him some interest at work but I really wanted to keep my feelings from a distance-based level, until one night, my brother found out I had a crush on him and sent him a sexual text message from my phone without me knowing. He asked if it was meant for him and when I realized what had happened, I got embarresed and told him someone else had sent it. He kept saying "Suuure!" and "Sure, thats what happened.. Ha ha ha" joking about it, and he would bring it up when we were alone and smile about it. We're always playing around and the otehr night I got drunk and told him that I liked him. The next day he asked me if what I said was the truth and i told him yes, and im yet to get a responce from him. Is he not interested at all? Am I just wasting my time? Thank you
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I've been in this same situation before--liking a guy a lot and number one, not being able to figure out if he was gay, and number two--not being able to figure out if he could like me. I did nothing. First things first, find out if he is gay. If he's not, then continue to the second step--find out if he likes you. He sounds like he has been flirty with you, but you need facts first.
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First off- if you want to know if he's gay, ASK him. Inferring or listening to what other people are saying will NOT work.
Here's some ways guys show they like you or at least are interested in you:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
--Jack
(16/m)
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