ok i've been on and off about this a couple times i'm not sure if i am in love ok well she's one of my best friends and i think about her A LOT and whenever i see her or talk to her i get butterflies and i dream about her constantly (not wet dreams)lol and when i hear a love song i think about her and sometimes cry so is it true love?
Your definition of love changes a bit as you are in long term relationships.
I would describe true love as knowing love. True love is knowing a person. Their good points, and their faults, and loving them because of and in spite of everything that makes them a person.
AntF921 answered Monday August 11 2008, 9:06 pm: Hi, so I'm also 15/m, and I know exactly what you're saying. Just recently got out of a relationship because of the..problem you are having. We thought we loved each other, but in reality, we didn't love each other, only what we wanted the relationship to be, if that makes any sense. I'm not advising you to get pessimistic about it or anything like that. Just, go slow, you're still young! Don't claim you love her, if you aren't sure.
Test out the relationship, go easy, and see where it takes the two of you. If it works out, it works out, if it doesn't, then it was an experiance for the both of you.
Cux answered Monday August 11 2008, 6:45 pm: Since you're so young, I would say it's just infatuation at this point. Teens often confuse love and infatuation with each other. True love is something felt between people who have been together for years and are on the brink of marriage, or are already married. Rarely ever does true love come in teenage years.
Try it out with her and don't go into it thinking you love her, because that may scare her away and whatnot.
heybbylovee answered Monday August 11 2008, 6:35 pm: no one can tell you for sure. it's all inside of you.
personally, you're still young. you have long ways to go. if she was fat, ugly, and hairy, would you still love her? is it her personality or her looks?
don't convince yourself. many people claim they love someone when they really don't know anything about true love.
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