I am a really cool kid. My friends are always coming to me with advice. They seem to love it. My intrest are riding my unicycle it is really fun
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Iam 19 years old and i live with my cousin becouse iam not able to live on my own becouse of physical disabilities i have and i don't get along with my mom and when i lived with my mom i would always do stupid stuff to get myself in trouble and iam sick and tired of getting into trouble and iam afraid if i go to my mom's for even just one day i will get my ass into some kimd of trouble becouse of the people i hang around with at my mom's i'll give you some kind of idea about what my sister and her friends and people that she hangs around with have got me to do that i wouldn't have done before.
staci thats my sister has got me to have oral sex with a guy before she has got me to have oral sex with a girl before she has got me to start smoking she has got me to try drinking she has got me to try pot and now that iam finally away from that kind of life and iam happy that iam away from it my mom misses me and wants me to visit her for the weekend nad iam so happy iam not involved in that lifestyle anymore i mean i know my mom loves me and she was the one who convinced me to come live with my cousin becouse she knew even though iam 19 i have the mind of a 12 year old and she knew it would be safer for me and i don't want to go back out to her house becouse iam afraid i'll do something stupid what should i do? (link)
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Well my brother is 19 and has the same problem with him. He is basically a 12 year old in a 19 year old's body. Maybe you could practice saying no. have your cousin play the role of your sister and your cousin trying to force you into stupid things. Practice saying no and maybe you won't get into so much trouble. I know I am way younger than you. I know how to give pretty good advice. One more thing, Don't fall for your sister's peer presure. Why don't you have a talk with your mom when you go over next time and talk to her about what your sister is doing. I seriously hopes this helps.
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ok i've been on and off about this a couple times i'm not sure if i am in love ok well she's one of my best friends and i think about her A LOT and whenever i see her or talk to her i get butterflies and i dream about her constantly (not wet dreams)lol and when i hear a love song i think about her and sometimes cry so is it true love? (link)
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Well it is sorta true that you know it is love when you are not asking a bunch of strangers but by all the signs you said all about when you are around her, I think it is definitly TRUE LOVE!!!! Does she show that she iss inerested in you. Cause if one person is in love with someone and that someone doen't loveback, the love won't work.
Hope this helps. ~Unicyclegurl1994
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I'm playing field hockey for the first time this fall, and I wanted to train over the summer.
does anyone have any good drills or advice?
thank you! (link)
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I am still in middle school but our team has been undefeatable for two yeas. When we run to practice we have ti bring our feild hockey stickes with us. Try getting use to the feel of running with a feild hockey stick by running on your street with it. It will look funny but it makes a good effort.
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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???
please help!!! (link)
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Ok. I know that you absolutley love this baby and you will do good with it but and adoption would probally be the most apropiate thing to do. If you still want to see the baby you could do an open adoption wich basically you get updates on the baby as he grows up and stuff. But hey I am just saying that might be the best thing to do for you. And for names I like Nevaeh. It is a very pretty name.
Hope this helps unicyclegurl
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All he does is sit around and watch cartoons all day. Why wont he go out and make some money.
I say if he is old enough to carry a shovel he should.
He also sucks in school, I think he ll drop out from kindergarden. (link)
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OMG! How old is your song?! Dropping out of kindegarrten. No offens but you need help. My 3 year old nephew can carry around a shovel, Does that mean he needs a job? Let him grow and play. Get a job later in life. I mean seriously? No offense again but do you know how to be a parent? I mean like did you have to get a job when you were little, little? Seriously.
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hey im 16 and pregnant
im 4 months along and
me and my boyfriend came up with some possible names with middles names.
Aidan Jole
Jole Aaron
Graydan Alan
Jayden Marcus
Brighten Mason
Brayden James
those were the top 6 boys names
Madison June
Mackenzie Lynn
Brianna May
Jamie Marie
Laura Jane
Madeline Jayme
and those are our top 6 girl names
we arnt sure if we are having a boy or girl
help us decided witch boy or girl names out of those do you all like?! or if you can come up with some other names please tell.
help us :) (link)
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Ok first off just my opinion. But I think 16 is way too young to have a baby. 2nd. For boys I like Brighten and Braden and for girls I like...Mackenzie and Madison
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What is the Gifted and Talented??
My Moms getting paperwork in the mail about me joining like a club for smart people. And I get good grades but Im not smart... I donno know.
And like someone said if u stay in it its a good way to get scholarhips for colledge.
I dont even know what it is? And I know people who are in it and there weird people... I dont wanna be a weird person! (link)
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Ok seriously gifted and talented is not for weird people. I have friends in gifted and talend that you would think is cool. And gifted and talented is a great way to get a scholarship for college. If I had better grades I would join it. And you cn get alot of respect in gifted and talented.
Hope this helps unicyclegurl
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during school i always act all uptght and everything, it's hard for me to be chill when im a little nervous. what are ways i can just relax? (link)
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Like Stargirl said take some deep breaths. Loosen up. you know. Think of positive things. Like when you are walking through school, think about
"today I a going to have a good day"
Hope that helps, unicyclegurl
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how can you give advice if you're not open-minded? i see a lot of answers on this site saying negative things towards certain religions and sexual orientations. and lots of labeling (preps, emos, etc).
i think that if you're going to try to help someone, you need to accept what they have to say and answer respectfully. am i the only one who feels this way? (link)
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I totally agree with you. I think people should be more respective. I have friends that are "emo". Who cares though. I mean seriously. It's what they want. And if you are not open minded try an opposite advice. If you want to say something negative, say something positive.
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so, i recently got a puppy who i absolutly LOVE! she's my first dog, she's a german shepherd mix and she's so hyperactive! we've got a problem though. we also have a cat, she's the complete opposite of my dog. she's calm, lazy, and almost always grumpy. she's always staring at the dog, and if i get them close to eachother she starts to hiss and the dog gets scared. there's been several times when she's attacked the poor puppy. i'm scared the cat might really hurt the puppy one day. i love them both and hate having to put them in different rooms just so they won't kill eachother. my cat's around 7 or 8yrs and the dog is 4 months i believe. help? i've gotten scratched up pretty bad by the cat whenever i break up the fight. she's just so stubborn..
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I used to have the exact same problem. I had two dogs and a cat. One dog was older and got along with my cat. My other dog was a puppy. He and my cat got into so much fights tigether I can't even count. After my mom was done with this old hair sray bottle, she gave it to me. It was mainly my cat that started to fight. So I filled the hairspray bottle with water. Everytime my cat would start I sprayed her. She didn't like it but soon stopped. Maybe that would work for your cat. I know alot of other people that tryed it and it worked too.
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my really good friedns had to go to summer school and she started hanging otu with the wrong ppl now she does pot out of a can a drinks lots of achocol nad i dont know what to do (link)
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Have you tred to talk to her about it? If so, and she is still doing it, why don't you try talking to a teacher or a parent. Ask them if they could talk to her but mention to them not to tell who told them. I always do that on my friends and it seems to work. Or make a play,commercial,parade something to let her know that danges of pot and alcohol.
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i have to read the glass castle for school, and i have to write a paper on it. I already read the book and i wanted to start on the paper. The problem is that i have to write about a song that reminds me of the book and write why it does. I cant think of any song that would possibly ever go with the book. Has anyone ever read the glass castle by jeannette walls? and knows a song that goes/relates to it? any help at all would be muchh appreciated(: (link)
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I have never really readt he book myself, but I will give you this. Try writing down words or phrases that you thought were important from the book. See if you can come up with a cool line and then another and so on and soon you'll have a song. You'll just have to sing it.
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i know i posted something like this ealier
and everyones advice was good.
but all this stuff with my boyfriend is making me so sad. and its driving me crazy.
i dont have like any girls that are friends cause me and girls just dont get along
and every guy that i talk to tell me to just break up with him and of course a guy would tell me that cause they wanna get with me
but i know their serious casue they see how sad i am.
but i just cant break up with him. im too inlove with him and ill be ever sadder
but my boyfriend and me live in different states
so the only thing our relationship really relies on is talking and trust and communicating and all that. but we dont even do that.
hes the only person i can talk to for hours on the phone and hes the only person i perfer talking on the phone rather then texting
but somedays ill get a text saying i love you or what are you doing baby. and some days ill get a phone call which is normally at like 1 in the morning. when i should be sleeping..
ive confronted him before about how i felt about not talking and he changed that for a couple days this week. but today it just went downhill after i saw him comment that girl telling her shes cute and shes commented him back saying f*ucking hot.
and that bothers me soo much because ive told him how i felt about that and obviously he doesnt care. and today i commented him saying babbby and he commented me back saying hey booo text me.
so i did and then after like 2 texts he stopped texing me and then i texted him back saying i hate when you tell girls their cute you know how i feel but whatever bye. and of course i never got anything back.
i really dont know what he could be doing behind my back. he could be messing with other girls and its soo easy for him to do it too cause we live in different states.
hes suppose to come down on the 13th and im wondering if thats actually gonna happen because he cant even call me back when he says and keep simple promises so how can i count on him even coming up here?
things were never like this. he has changed so much.
im really sorry this is long. but i honeslty have no one to talk to. and i just need peoples advice.
im thinking about just not texting him or calling him and just gonna do my thing until he decides to talk to me. and i know he wont talk to me for awhile and ill end up texting him and he will just tell me like every excuse that hes busy with work or stuff.
someone help me. im confused and dont know what to do :[ (link)
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Trust me if he lives in another state break it off. You never know if who you're boyfriend really is if you have never sen him, And nd if he sent you a pic that could of come from any where. I have had the experience of having a boyfriend in another state. It didn't work out at all. And plus you don't know if he is dating someone else behind your back. Seriously if I was you I'd break it off.
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I was at Borders on Friday looking at books when I came across one and I do not remember the title, or author =X sorry but it's really been bugging me.
It starts off with the girl looking at the window waiting for her Ex Boyfriend to come.. or a boy that killed himself during the summer. And he keeps asking her to let him in and she keeps telling him no. And she's like Maybe if I chopped down that tree...
It's haunting me and Im going back Thursday again to look for it at the same shelf but if its not there i dont wanna look stupid and be like Do you know this book about... I dont know the Author or Title.. can you help me?
So if you could give me anything it would be super super helpfull (link)
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I don't wanna sound rude but have you tred asking the librarian? And sorry but I on't have a clue about that book. If you find it and read it let me know how it is.
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