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I don't want to go to my mom's house
Iam 19 years old and i live with my cousin becouse iam not able to live on my own becouse of physical disabilities i have and i don't get along with my mom and when i lived with my mom i would always do stupid stuff to get myself in trouble and iam sick and tired of getting into trouble and iam afraid if i go to my mom's for even just one day i will get my ass into some kimd of trouble becouse of the people i hang around with at my mom's i'll give you some kind of idea about what my sister and her friends and people that she hangs around with have got me to do that i wouldn't have done before.
staci thats my sister has got me to have oral sex with a guy before she has got me to have oral sex with a girl before she has got me to start smoking she has got me to try drinking she has got me to try pot and now that iam finally away from that kind of life and iam happy that iam away from it my mom misses me and wants me to visit her for the weekend nad iam so happy iam not involved in that lifestyle anymore i mean i know my mom loves me and she was the one who convinced me to come live with my cousin becouse she knew even though iam 19 i have the mind of a 12 year old and she knew it would be safer for me and i don't want to go back out to her house becouse iam afraid i'll do something stupid what should i do?
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Well my brother is 19 and has the same problem with him. He is basically a 12 year old in a 19 year old's body. Maybe you could practice saying no. have your cousin play the role of your sister and your cousin trying to force you into stupid things. Practice saying no and maybe you won't get into so much trouble. I know I am way younger than you. I know how to give pretty good advice. One more thing, Don't fall for your sister's peer presure. Why don't you have a talk with your mom when you go over next time and talk to her about what your sister is doing. I seriously hopes this helps.
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Well, I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you make your own choices in this life. When your sister talks you into things, you choose to allow her to do so. You CAN choose to say no, and stand firmly behind that decision.
Don't let your mom get the short end of the stick, here. That's not fair to her at all. Your mom wants to see you, and I wager you want to see her.
So go do it, and remember YOU are responsible for YOUR choices. Say NO.
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