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please guy trouble!
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 7:59 pm
Hello :] well im not usually the shy type of girl.
AT ALL actually. Its just that im better talking to guys in person rather than on the phone.
and well i think guys seem to think im boring because im going to admit it i am pretty boring on the phone.so i think they dont want to go out with me if our first like big talk was on the phone [do u get what im saying?]
but thats only because idk but it just seems easier for me in person. so like what should i talk about on the phone with a guy [please dont say talk about what you would talk about in person] because i just FREEZE on the phone.
so if you could give me like a list or something that would be awesome...PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!
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2 years!
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 7:15 pm
Okay, so I'm 17 and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years on the 20th, wonderful, I know :D
But I'm kinda at lost on getting him something.
A girl in my town died back in April, and she got her bf a Build a Bear, that had her voice on it, saying "I love you boo boo" and all he did was play it for days, right after another.
So I was thinking of a build a bear and having me say something on it, so he'll always have my voice with him if anything happens to me, strange to think of, but yea.
anything else???
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i miss him
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 6:18 pm
SORRY for it being long lol.
Theres this guy, jed, and i really like him, maybe even love him, and i honestly dont know what to do. I am 14, hes 15, and i know im not too young to love. But he lives an hour away. We see each other for a week straight ever year and then we visit each other for a couple of days every month or two and we talk like every night. We hooked up, and i really thought he liked me. I mean he was always like i msis you so much. and i have a fb and he always comments like you are gorgeous.
Last nights his away was im a mess. I said i am too. Hes like mines because of a girl, im like mines because of a guy and i really really thought he was going to say it was because of me. He was like i c...
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Attraction
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 5:00 pm
17/f
I sit beside a guy, Alex, in a class at school. Many girls are jealous of me and for the last year (during junior year - now we are seniors) they have been saying horrible things about me to get Alex & his friends to dislike me. I`m not sure if it has worked or not, but I would like him to have an undeniable attraction to me so that he does not listen to what the other girls say.
I`m smart, I look good, & I try to be nice & interesting - but what else can I do? I do not have any attraction to Alex, it`s actually his friend I`m interested in. Plus Alex has a girlfriend (who absolutely hates me - not that she knows me, I`m just a threat I suppose). Is there a way to trick Alex into blocking out w...
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best friend. . .or not?
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 4:11 pm
ok, so within the past year 1/2 i've become best friends with this kid Chris. lately, we've been talking everyday on the comp. and every night on the phone. however, yesterday a girl from my school IMed me and asked me if i liked him because someone told her i did. but i told her i like him as a friend. . .then I told him what happened, and all he said was "oh"...but now he's been saying he has to go a lot, and he hasn't called me, and he gives me 1 word answers, or none at all. but he has a GIRLFRIEND who he does not talk about. so im not sure if he likes me or not. and it's been on my mind since it happened, so i don't know if i like him too.
but his friend (& my friend) likes me too...
maybe he...
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1year?<3
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 3:15 pm
well me and my boyfriend will be going out for a year as of february 26, i know its early to be thinking about it now but i dont want to do anythinng last minute, dont say have sex because its not like we cant do that whenever. i want to do something we cant normally do,and something memorable, i live in new york. any ideas?
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What's going on with him?
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 2:14 pm
My boyfriend (19) and I (18) have been dating for almost a year now. He's always been extremely nice to me and loving. He'd tease me sometimes but in a cute way. Over the past month or so I've noticed the teasing increasing a lot and it's getting well...mean. He'll point out my flaws about myself that I hate (my ears, and ankles), make fun of the way I speak at times, and he'll cuss at me alot more. Not like, cuss me out but last night, he called me a bitch and I was absolutely blown away--I couldn't believe it but he said he was joking and he was laughing and joking around about it. He also told me to shut up. After that, I confronted him about it and he claims that nothing has changed about the way he is towards me. But something is clear...
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lyrics.
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 1:57 pm
hey, does anyone know any songs that are about someone egtting over a relationship that all the guy did was cheat and now the girl got sick of it and is getting over him, and done with him?
or if its easier..
one cheated on the other and now ones sick of it and is done with the other.
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Does he like me & what do I do if he does?!?!!?
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 12:43 pm
I just started hs, n the guy i like is in 10th grade, so i dont have any classes with him, except for lunch because everyone has lunch together.
anyways, this guy, lets call him Jack (thats not his real name), first saw me in the hallway one morning, and ever since he has been standing there every day. Also, during lunch for the last two days he has been eating 10 ft away from me n my friends with his friends. also, the other day, as i was walking with my friends, his WHOLE group of friends turned n looked my way. and last night at the football game, he kept looking my way.
so, im pretty sure he likes me , and i know i like him too. so, now what do i do? I can't go up and talk to him because he is always with his fri...
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Was it really for the best?
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 12:01 pm
So two years ago I met this guy who I really liked, and he liked me too. We became really good friends but something happened and we drifted apart. At the beginning of this year we started talking again. He told me he liked me, and I told him I liked him. But he has a girlfriend. (at the time I had a boyfriend but he dumped me after a few weeks) So the guys not any random to me, hes also like, my best friend now. But I didnt know what to do. I didnt want to wait for him because that wasnt fair on me. But I didnt want to make him choose "her or me" because that wasnt fair on him. I also didnt want to get with somebody else because Id always be thinking of THAT GUY and that wouldnt be fair on the person Id be with. So I was extremel...
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Borderline Cheat?
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 10:42 am
Okay, I love my boyfriend. We have been dating for ten months now, and something happened in the first two or three months we were dating. An ex-boyfriend of mine would call really like at night, once my boyfriend (Chase) and I had gotten off the phone. I never expected him to call, nor did I ever say call back.. We talked for a good 2-3 hours and then we'd get off the phone. He would end the conversation by saying "I Love You". and I said it back.
I told my boyfriend about this, and we nearly broke up over it.. It entirely broke my heart- but we're trying to sort through things now, but there's still a problem.
I cannot forget about what I did to him. Everytime we laugh, or have a good time- I think...
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Very Complicated Situation.
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 6:19 am
To make a very long story short there's this guy at my school that I really, really like. I've liked him since last year and I never really stopped. Over the summer I thought that maybe I'd gotten over him because I didn't really think about him but seeing him again this year brought back all my feelings for him. The only thing that REALLY sucks is that I don't know him. I don't have any classes with him, I'm not friends with any of his friends, I've never really talked to him.. I know it's completely lame to like someone I don't know and I've tried getting over him but I can't. I've liked other guys but each time I end up comparing them to him.
You're probably wondering how I could like a guy I don't know so much and the tr...
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i met a boy at a party
Posted Sunday September 7 2008, 5:38 am
and he was really cute
and we danced together all night
and now weve been talking on AIM
and the conversation is totally dying
and we have nothing to say
and its like we had more of a connection when we werent using words
but he goes to another school and i might never see him again
but we had a really good connection and idont want to lose touch
how do i keep from losing all contact with him, and really find out about him and get to know him? conversation pretty much falls flat.
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???
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 8:49 pm
I realized I was gay when I was like 9, mostly b/c my parents are way controlling even wen i was little they wouldn't let me have friends who were guys...
so to me wen i was young, i was like ok mom and dad dont want me to hang out with guys, guess somethings wrong with em, so i eventually started liking girls instead.
Then me and my family moved to a new town when i was 14, and my parents finally agreed to let me go away to public skool, after a few months i kinda got bi-curious.
Long story short i ended up having sex with a guy, got addicted, became fully bisexual, then shortly afterward became so grossed out by how guys looked etc that i cudnt even be turned on enough to have sex w/ em ne more....
i told peo...
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always wanna be with my boyfriend
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 8:03 pm
i've been dating this guy for a month and hes absolutely amazing and i know he really cares about me. the thing is that he doesnt go to my school and i only get to see him like 2 or 3 times a week. i constantly want to be with him all of the time and when im not i get upset...is this normal? i havent told him that i love him yet because i think a month is too early but i think i seriously do because i always wanna be with him...what does this mean? is it normal? is it bad? any advice?
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old friends
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 6:57 pm
there was a guy i knew and i really liked him when we were at school. i moved and i hadnt heard from him in 2 years. back when we went to school together i had fallen in love with him. lat night i got a call from him. i was so happy to hear from him. hes been on my mind for the longest time. then, finally when i was getting over him he calls and i remember how much i miss about him. we live in differnt states now and people have been telling me that he had had a crush on me when i was there. i want to know if he liked me so i tolled him how i felt and he hung up on me. i dont know what to do. i still like him but i wanna get over him but i dont know how to. what do i do now? ive tryed getting over him but now all i think about is him! what do i do now?
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Eighth Grade.
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 4:36 pm
Okay, since like ever I've always been the guys best friend. Theres been prettier girls then me, and thats who my friends go for. Most of my friends are guys. I've always been flat chested, like a board and it would sometimes bother me when someone pointed it out, but then i just realised-- Whatever.
Well over the summer I went from like nothing to a C. I don't honestly know how.. but I did. And my Mom also said that I got curves.. [embarrasing..] No one failed to notice the changes over the summer and its weird. because most girls went through this like in the 6th grade, and im going through it in the 8th but now all the 'friends' I have which are guys are diffrent around me. I'm really into sports, and we usto always play football...
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friends or boyfriend... who's more important?
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 3:43 pm
i really like my new boyfriend but when i asked my friend to hang out with us he was really mean to them. he's nice to my pther friends so i don't know why he wasn't nice to these friends. they've been my friends for a long time, but my boyfriend makes me very happy. they both told me they hate each other. i think sooner or later they're gonna make me pick sides. so who's more important? my friends or my boyfriend?
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Im confused about this guy -- READ MORE.
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 3:19 pm
THIS IS GONNA BE LONG BUT PLAESE BARE WITH ME :)
So school started on Wednesday Sept. 3
And in my 6th period i found this guy -- the first time i saw him, i knew i wasnt gonna keep my eyes off of him. i swear he's my first CRUSH in high school..
The second day-- i was so excited to see him again, he is cute, has nice style, cute voice, i can tell he's a little shy cause when the teacher would call on him its like he wants to hide in his little shell. (HOW CUTTEEE) even though i dont know him, theres something about him that gets me attracted to him... i actually think he caught me staring at him!! haha first question, 1 IF HE CAUGHT ME STARING AT HIM, DOESNT THAT MEAN HE WAS LOOKING AT ME TOO?
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I need a guy's help
Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 1:20 pm
What would you do if you like a girl (PLEASE don't say "tell her" I want like subtle things or signs or something like that.... like SHY ways)
sorry, these two guys act TOTALLY different but in a way the same (and I THINK they like me but I'm not sure. I'm used to just being "one of the guys" so I don't know things like this :/)
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