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please guy trouble!
Hello :] well im not usually the shy type of girl.
AT ALL actually. Its just that im better talking to guys in person rather than on the phone.
and well i think guys seem to think im boring because im going to admit it i am pretty boring on the phone.so i think they dont want to go out with me if our first like big talk was on the phone [do u get what im saying?]
but thats only because idk but it just seems easier for me in person. so like what should i talk about on the phone with a guy [please dont say talk about what you would talk about in person] because i just FREEZE on the phone.
so if you could give me like a list or something that would be awesome...PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!!
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well its always helpful to know your age, but im thinking your somewhere between 13-15....okay??
well this guy he goes to school with you.....then talk about that..
talk about things you wouldnt normally talk about with anyone else just take a deep breath and say something anything...you most guys think its cute when you say the wrong thing or something totally wierd....whatever you do dont make their be complete scilence....be like omgosh today in school.....blah blah blah.....then say something giving him the idea that hes special......like the other day i was talking to a guy on the phone and i said," i'm done with guys!!!" and he ask why and i say,"some are just so immature and seem like theyll never grow up!" and he finally goes." are you tired of me??" and i say no actually your diffrent....and he say how andi tell him......so i made him feel im portant and special to me....
and guys like that!!!!
umm a list okay......
1.if he calls you then say something to make him want you like...i just got out of the shower im dripping wet....haha i know but it works i've done it!!! it makes them think...
2. if you call him then say hey like your eager to talk to him.....but when he calls you do the same...
3.okay the hard part... your gonna actually have a conversation...well if he asks wat are you doing be like..
i just got done playing soccer or whatever sport he likes or you like so that if he's in to sprots or music...you can be like to you like to play soccer..or..do you listen to (band(???
4.try to make him laugh...think of something funny smart witty to say or make something up like oh no! theirs this creepy guy again trying to kill me.....but make this funny or watever....(sorry if you dont think thats funny)
5.as your beginning your convo...dont expect things to get deep...in other words like a deep conection this might take a while..and depending on your chemistry it could take later in that fone call...
6.around the end of your conversation...and he says well im going to sleep goodnite say it back..and if he says it back giggle and say it back...its cute its like a little game....
7.okay you might wanna call him around 9:00 at night....cuz thats when he mite be laying down and watching t.v. and its not to late but its not to early and if you think he likes you then call him first guys like that...but anyways..i called this guy once at 9:00 one time and our conversation lasted almost 5 hours..i was tired but it was worth it!!
okay so i hoped i helped if i didnt i tried.....but try to put your own spin on these tips and dont call him all the time hell get annoyed....
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