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i make the wrong choice everytime
i dont know what to do i lost a good bf over my ex and after i lost my good boyfriend i dated my ex i cant stop going back to my ex im in love with him he used to treat me like crap but he treats me alot better now i can never stop loving him but im loosing my friends over this because they think he treats me like crap and they said i changed after i met him and im a whore and all soo i lost all my good friends over him because i keep on going back to him we love eachother and my mom hates him she used to like him and she wants me to move on but i dont want to i love him
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You're most likely not gonna like my answer:
Did you allow time for yourself to get away from your ex?
Mostly, when we break up with someone (doesn't matter if we're the dumper or dumpee), we go through a period of still being "in love" with our ex. It really isn't love, it's remnants of it. We want to go back to something that's familiar ground, even if it's bad for us.
you need to get away from this ex. No communication or contact whatsoever. Get rid of all sorts of pictures, all sorts of texts, emails, etc. Just erase him from your life.
Allow yourself to move on. You seem to be stuck in the first stage of moving on: still wanting to go back.
Any new journey is scary but we won't know if it's better or worse than the previous path until we travel it.
Cheers,
stargirl
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