Theres this guy, jed, and i really like him, maybe even love him, and i honestly dont know what to do. I am 14, hes 15, and i know im not too young to love. But he lives an hour away. We see each other for a week straight ever year and then we visit each other for a couple of days every month or two and we talk like every night. We hooked up, and i really thought he liked me. I mean he was always like i msis you so much. and i have a fb and he always comments like you are gorgeous.
Last nights his away was im a mess. I said i am too. Hes like mines because of a girl, im like mines because of a guy and i really really thought he was going to say it was because of me. He was like i cant tell you i cant tell you and then hes like fine its a girl named jessie you dont know her. I just like couldnt move i felt numb and just wanted to cry. I do now too, i texted him the whole night and he talked about jessie. she seems like a great girl but...idk. I really thought we would end up together just try at least and this crushed me like im tearing up now. I feel for his pain when i see him i cant stop smiling. He is the first thing i think about int he morning and hes always the last thing i thinka bout before going to bed, haha im always texting this boy. When i hear his voice its heaven. When he touches me its like a shock goes through my body. We like the same things, and i honestly cant stop talking about him. My friends think i should get over him but i dont think its possible i mean ive had boyfirends before but ive never felt anything like this. What can i do? i love him and there isnt one thing wrong with him, hes perfect. Help me! i cant tell him i love him. not now after meagan, it would just be embarrassing being like hows meagan? btw i lvoe you? it just wouldnt work. ugh. helpp!
Additional info, added Sunday September 7 2008, 6:24 pm: OH about the meagan thing, that was the girl who likes him, but he doesnt like her back and shes been like asking him out everyday....lol sorry for the confusion!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? katwashala answered Monday September 8 2008, 8:48 pm: yikes. you sound way in over your head. well where do i start. first things first, you have got to tell him how you feel, this hinting and hoping never works with boys, their world is black and white. the only way to untangle this knot is by CALLING him (not texting) and telling him whats on your mind. if he turns you down, so what? you have nothing to lose. the worst that could happen (if he really is the perfect nice boy you've described) is him saying he just wants to be friends, and you are back where you started, and maybe thats the where u need to be. and btw don't listen to your friends, it doesn't sound like your heart has been broken, so follow your heart while its still working. hope i helped
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michelle823 answered Monday September 8 2008, 6:01 pm: give him hints that you like him. get to meet this jessie girl and see if she likes him back or if maybe you two could become friends =] maybe she doesnt like him and hell get over her and start liking you.
what i do is tell the guy that i like that i like him. it gets stuff out in the open and 99% we start going out because hell start liking me because i told him and most guys like that as long as you dont become all stalker like. l0l
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