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promise ring


Posted Tuesday September 16 2008, 1:02 am

heyy..i gave my ex a promise ring after 4 months we were dating...we dated for 9 months...we broke up 3 months ago...after we broke up she never wore the ring and we hardly spoke..now 3 months later were on better terms trying to work things out slowly...i asked her if she sold the ring or got rid of it and she said no and that shes actually wearing it...when i saw her this past saturday she had it on her right ring finger..ladies, what does that mean when a girl wears her promise ring on her right ring finger?

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GF AND BF AT THE SAME TIME...


Posted Monday September 15 2008, 4:53 pm

i have two lovers right now, and ive always believed this to be wrong, but i love my girlfriend, karla, and when my best friend james asked me out i couldnt say no b/c ive liked him even longer than ive liked karla.
whats YOUR OPINION on this...is it ok for someone's who's bisexaul to have a bf and a gf at the same time????


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soft?


Posted Monday September 15 2008, 1:56 pm

24/f. I have been dating this man the last month or so, he is 31. When we have sex it takes a minute for him to get hard and even then it seems to be not completely "erect". I know he is very physically attracted to me so that is not the problem. I was wondering if this was common or if anyone knew some possible reasons why this is happening. Thank you. also, is it bad of me to be less interested in him for this fact? the sex is good but that "problem" is strange and I am not comfortable asking him about it yet.

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Cheating / something / confusion.


Posted Monday September 15 2008, 12:01 pm

Me and my girlfriend were at a (female) friend's place recently for a party. To cut a long story short, a large quantity of liquor was consumed, and we ended up sharing her bed.

We ended up fooling around rather a lot... her one rule was not reaching 4th with the friend. This was okay, this was permitted.

It was in the morning that things went badly - her friend was still rather affectionate, but I was told that this morning was the end of it. My girlfriend fell asleep again and the affection was returned. Halfway through it all she woke up again.

Needless to say, we are in trouble.

I went through a big show of assuring her that it was all okay, that it meant nothing to me and that...

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don't know what to do anymore...


Posted Monday September 15 2008, 6:13 am

16/F
okay so, let me start from the beginning. there's this guy, i've been friends with him for like 3 years. he's liked me for 2 of those years (of course he like hooked up with other girls etc. in those 2 years but always went back to liking me). in those 2 years we became like best friends. he's the one i went to with my problems, we talked on the phone every night, etc. i was a bitch, i led him on, i can admit that. but that was a long time ago. this summer, i started to actually like him for real. we hooked up like all summer. he asked me out, we went out for a week, i went to camp, i broke up with him. i was in a different world. i didn't hook up with any guys at camp. i just couldn't do it. there's nothing i regret more than b...

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is it possible to be in love at 14?


Posted Monday September 15 2008, 3:07 am

heyy, i know this is long but please answer if you can. im so lost any suggestion would be amazing.

the first boy ive ever loved, kissed, gone out with, all of that is still in my head. we started daitng 3 years ago (wer both 14 now) and hes been in my head ever sense. i know he feels the same way and its scary because no matter how many times we break up we aways go back to eachother. it feels like we were destined to be together. and ithink we might be eventually. but...



whenever we have a relationship it gets so serous that im scared to even talk to him. if i do, we flirt nonstop, make all of these plans, and im scared where ittle leade. ive never been able to really get over him, i get but...

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is he gonna ask me?


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 10:37 pm

my friend texted my crush and asked him if he is going to ask me to homecoming
he said maybe?
we have a history of crushes on each other bue he never trys to talk to me like puts no effort in our "realtionship"
what does this maybe? mean

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in love


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 7:32 pm

I've known him for 2 weeks, were going out. And I swear I love him. I liked him like the second I met him. He feels the same way. What do you think?

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guilty flirting


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 6:34 pm

In my group of friends, there is a boy who I have always thought liked me a little bit. Well, of course I was flattered, but I just kinda brushed it off because I wasn't really interested in him and I didn't really feel like dating anyone at the time, especially him because it would just be too akward. I mean, I never really flat out told him I didn't like him, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but I just politely didn't respond to his attempts to flirt with me.

Now, also in our little social group, there is another boy who in the last couple of months, durring the summer, I have become extremely close to. We have become great friends with eachother, we understand eachother, and naturally, I have begun to have a li...

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ok..i seriously dont know what to do HELP


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 6:18 pm

the guy i honestly love i cant be with =[ because he has a bad drug problem i wanna help him, we dated for 3 years and finnally he had a bad drug tripp and hit me =[ we broke up after that, he tells me he misses me and that he loves me but i cant be with him if hes still on drugs
how can i help him

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Boys!


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 6:12 pm

Ok so there is this boy in my class and i think he likes me becuase everytime i turn around he is always staring at me and when i look at him he always gets a big smile on his face. now if you know me i am a very shy person so please dont tell me to go up to him and ask him if he likes me becuase i dont do that kind of stuff. so i need help on finding out ifhe likes me for sure, becuase i like him!

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Feeling Like A loser!


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 5:29 pm

I really like this guy and I know he will probably never like me! What is there to like? I'm so ugly, I'm not as pretty as everyone else. I feel so hideous! I have unwanted hair, like on my upper lip, hands and legs, and I am a girl! How do I make myself feel pretty? I'm not even allowed to shave!

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HELPPP


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 5:28 pm

i need major help geting over my ex. We have been broken up for like 5 months now and im still having trouble getting over him. I cant get him outa my mind or out of my dreams. We dated for 4 years before he left me. And he left me for some other girl. He wants 2 be just friends and acts like nothing happends. I just wanna knowmhow he can act like this when we had such a serious relationship. When is this going to stop hurting??

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Romance Films..


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 4:26 pm

Helloo =] Does anybody know some really good romance films ? PLease name any you can think of x x

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boy from sixth grade


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 4:17 pm

I recently went to this party of one of my old bestfriends...I saw this guy named jamie there and he was the first and only one to give me a hug when he saw me ( I havent seen them in like 2 years) well I really never talked to jamie in middle school but i have known of him since 6th grade...now i really like him cause he is really cute and nice now
I got his number before i left the party but when should i call and I want to hang out with him what should i be like to make him want to hang out more...he was already telling me drama that was going on with a girl he liked but when everyone else came around he told me he'd tell me later so i take it that he trusts me..how can i keep this up with out messing it up????help give me advice ...

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normal to want older men?


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 2:39 pm

im 24. i dont have any attraction to men my age. i keep getting attracted to intelligent men over the age of 35. is this normal?
am i making a mistake of ignoring men my age? am i putting myself in a postion to be manipulated by "more experienced" men?
thanks

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how to get her to..


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 2:03 pm

I can't remember the last time I asked a question about a man. Anyway, my friend is in love with this dirtbag cop, and even though he dumped her cause of THE dumbest thing, she can't get over him. There's this really nice guy that likes her. He brings her flowers, and when she lost her sidekick lx, he didn't hesitate to buy her a new one. It's the first guy her mom actually likes, but If anything, my friend seems disgusted of him! He's cute, kind-hearted, a totally whipped boy, but even though she feels nothing for him, she has him as like her back up plan. I hate how she dates scum that hit her, and then she treats the nice ones like crap. It's a cycle, I know. I don't want her to break his heart. I wanna meet him, but she keeps subtly mak...

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I want to start dating.


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 11:32 am

i'm eighteen years old and i've had two boyfriends - one in eighth grade and one in tenth grade,.but when people ask me, i say i've never had one, because they hardly count.

i've always been really, painfully shy when it comes to dating. i'm not insecure about my looks, i'm actually pretty conceited, it's irritating. i'm more insecure about my personality. i'm like, weird. i'm socially awkward and i play a lot of video games. i don't get along with most people. all my friends and most of the guys i've met like myspace and taking naked pictures of themselves. i like reading and watching cartoons. i know there are other people out there who are more like me, but where?

i don't know how to get over my anxiety. i ...

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what in the world do i do


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 10:50 am

16/f. so my boyfriend of about two years and i were going very well until about the middle of the summer. we just didnt talk as much, and he went away for over 2 weeks with his family. When he got back, even though he was hanging out with me he was also like drinking and smoking pot with his guy friends and im not really into that stuff so i dont go with him when he does do that. i dont really care that he does that because he doesnt do it TOO much and he is smart about it, but when school sttarts he like didnt talk to me as much as he always does, so yesterday i asked him what was up and he said he really liked me but he didnt know if he loved me anymore and he was trying to figure out why. and he said that this week he just didnt talk t...

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I'm Still In Love With My Ex


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 3:53 am

I'm a married woman. My husband is a great man. He is the only person I can see myself ever having children with. However, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. I constantly think about him. I dream about him. I want to see him, smell him, feel his skin against my cheek. This is all crazy because my ex is not a good man. He used to choke me whenever we got into a really bad argument. I was afraid of him...but I loved him. I moved across the country so that I could get away from him and move on with my life. There are many good things about him, but he doesn't possess "husband-like" qualities. My husband is close to perfect in my eyes, but I don't feel the same way about him as I do towards my ex. How do I stop these feelings? A...

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