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ok..i seriously dont know what to do HELP
the guy i honestly love i cant be with =[ because he has a bad drug problem i wanna help him, we dated for 3 years and finnally he had a bad drug tripp and hit me =[ we broke up after that, he tells me he misses me and that he loves me but i cant be with him if hes still on drugs
how can i help him
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You can help him by getting him information about rehab centers, but he must help himself by committing to getting well. It is not up to you to do that. It really isn't a good time for him to get into a relationship because he needs to focus on getting healthy and it will be a difficult struggle. So, if you really care about him, be a friend but don't subject yourself to anything more because he can't offer it to you at the moment even if he says he can.
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The problem is you can't help him.
He has to help himself. So long as
he isn't doing that he is no good
for you. You know that.
Just let him no that you will never
date a guy who loves his drugs more
than you. He will claim that isn't
true but you know better.
In the end he will help himself or
continue on the way he has been. I
think your best bet is to move on.
Drugs will win in 9 cases out of 10.
Its sad for him, but his life to
destroy.
Just don't let him talk you into
destroying yours too. You would be
hurt so bad in any relationship with
this guy. So don't look back until you
know for certain he has been in rehab
and out and off drugs for a while before
you even consider him again.
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tell him if he wants you so badly, he has to go to rehab first. tell him you want nothing to do with him until hes clean. then you'll try again.
hope it all works out!
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