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what in the world do i do
16/f. so my boyfriend of about two years and i were going very well until about the middle of the summer. we just didnt talk as much, and he went away for over 2 weeks with his family. When he got back, even though he was hanging out with me he was also like drinking and smoking pot with his guy friends and im not really into that stuff so i dont go with him when he does do that. i dont really care that he does that because he doesnt do it TOO much and he is smart about it, but when school sttarts he like didnt talk to me as much as he always does, so yesterday i asked him what was up and he said he really liked me but he didnt know if he loved me anymore and he was trying to figure out why. and he said that this week he just didnt talk to me because he was seeing what it would be like without me. which is something i didnt think he would ever do. because it was mean to me to have me guessing all week what i did wrong and why he wasnt talking to me.
so now he says hes sorry and is talking to me a littttle more. i still really like him but i dont know if i should just break up with him because he HAS changed and the fact that he would do that this past week is just so annoying. but i really dont know what to do
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hi. wow if anyone could relate to you now at all it would definitely be me. ha. i don't know if you can see the time when i'm writing this but it's like 4 in the morning and i can't sleep because of this. our situations are a little different.. i've been like best friends with him for 2 years, we've been like together but not really together, it's confusing. but anyways same situation with the pot and drinking. same situation where he stopped talking to you as much. except now my guy (i guess he's not really mine anymore?) has a new girlfriend. because he didn't really realize how much i liked him and thought i didn't wanna go out with him. and so i know how you feel with the guessing thing.. he's deciding between me and his new girlfriend because i actually told him how much i liked him this time. sorry i have a point to this, i'm not just talking about myself haha. basically, what i want to say is MAKE SURE HE KNOWS HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HIM. tell him. make it clear so he doesn't make a stupid mistake. maybe he doesn't know if he loves you because he doesn't know if you love him. or there could be another girl? don't accuse him of anything but just ask him if there's anyone else he's interested in. depending on how he reacts to these things you can decide if you want to stay with him or not. good luck! inbox me if you need any more help :)
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