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long distance


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 7:28 pm

im 17 and in a longdistance relationship. the relationship will be a year in november, but has been long distance since july because i moved. any advice on how to keep things together more easily and make it work from someone whos been there?

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How can I be careful not to break her heart


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 3:49 pm

I have used this site before for something completely different, and it worked great so I thought I'd give it another try.
I started to talk to this 27 year old women on-line from a social site, and it started out as friends. I'm 21 years old myself. As well as an age gap the big problem is that she lives in Russia and I go to University in the US. Over the past few months We've exchanged e-mail almost every day, and she's grown to love me very much, and it is the same with me. She wants to visit me in America, but I live in a Dorm with guys all guys so it won't work out, and still have 3 years left. Of course I've told her all of this. The problem is she just doesn't seem to care, and has almost grown obsessed with trying to...

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i like him


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 1:00 pm

He's in one of my classes. My acting class, so we have to perform in front of eachother a lot. lol Sometimes he says hi and sometimes he doesn't. We used to talk more when we just met but now we hardly do talk. My friend saw him and his friend looking at me/ making signs to me when my back was turned to him. Obviously I am wondering if he likes me, but the signs are all mixed up that I have no way of telling. We hang out right next to eachother but not with eachother. And my friend said he probably likes me but is shy around me/ doesn't talk to me because he likes me, but I don't know if I can believe that. I want truth not guesses. lol. Does anyone think they can solve tis mystery? Thanks =]

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Maybe I should just disappear


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 5:27 am

Male, 25.
I'll keep it quick.

My girlfriend went away for a year overseas. We kept in touch, and everything.

But when she came back, it's like we're constantly at odds. I mean, we were one of those classical bickering couples already. But now she's seemingly intolerant of just everything I do. And she's increasingly stopped being patient when I can't do something with her because of me observing religious occasions. I mean, she used to be cool with our religious differences, and now she acts like the same things I've always done are now inconvenient for her.

What's adding to my problems is that I'm starting to realize that I've been nursing a crush on a long-time female friend, who just re...

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Trying to get an ex girlfriend back.Need help.


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 3:16 am

Please read all of this.

Well, me and my girl broke up a month and a half ago, a week after we broke up, i got another girlfriend. We lasted one week. I knew i was still crazy for her. I cant stop thinking about her even now, it seems like she has moved on though, she had a boyfriend..for a week.

When she broke it off she begged that we should stay friends..

So much for that.
We arnt on speaking terms, she ignores me..
we havnt spoken in so long.
but i need her back.


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is this guy playing with my heart?


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 2:04 am

So i liked this guy since 7th grade and now im in 9th grade.
So today we had a football game and during half time he smiled and waved at me NOT his friends though.
but when the game was over all the guys were high-fiveing everyone and then when he got to me hes like no...


Like his friends and my friends are close but we act ( iguess) like we hate each other but at other times when were in a class together we smile at each other a lot and talk once and a while.

i remember in the 9th grade he found out that i liked him and freaked out.

like i never did anything to bother him but he really doesnt like to high five me or hug me or do anything that involds me.

...

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Girlfriend and her twin trouble


Posted Saturday September 20 2008, 1:24 am

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 2 months the only thing is that her twin sister is always with us. No matter what we do she does it with us. We never really have time alone and when we do her sister makes her feel bad by getting upset about her not being with us and then later apologizes for doing that. I have tried given her and her sister time together where they spend a day together without me but her sister then complains and asks where I went and why I'm not with them. I don't know what to do anymore we have tried making her feel welcome all the time but she turns and makes my g/f feel bad every time we do something without her which never happens and when it does its only for an hour or two. any idea or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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makeing out with my ex!


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 11:11 pm

okay im 14/f and hes 13/m
im in high school now and hes in 8th grade.
we dated 3 times on and off for 4 months and then took a clean break from each other until the last feew weeks weve been talking all the time!.
so he came to a football game at my school and we were like flirting hard core in front of his girlfran so she walked away(i didnt know he even had a girl fran)okay so he was like oh shit ill be right back okay so like a 30 min later hes like come meet me here so i did and hes like i just broke up with my girlfan so i was like you had one oh my bad and hes like yeah so a lil bit later we held hands and we sat by a wall and his hand was around me and he was tickeling me and it was cute so then he stoped and i...

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love/in love confusion!


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 10:34 pm

This is something I have been wondering for awhile. I know that you can love your family members and friends and be IN love with your mate. But is it possible to just love your boyfriend/girlfriend and not be in love with them? Please tell me anything you can, thank you :]

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Askin out


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 9:52 pm

How do you get a guy to ask you out?

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the guy i like


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 9:18 pm

so i like this guy and i was talking to him today and he was like weres meg weres meg so i saw that he was like being cruching over her so i sayed you like her huh? and he shuged hes sloders so i was like you do!!! and he said ya but she dosent like me like that.


so should i still try for him?

or

should i try to hook them up?


its not like im in love with him i would rater see him happy with her then not happy with me and wer friends so i cool with that!!

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Is this really weird?


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 5:15 pm

Ok this is a really, really awkward question... I have a cousin... actually, he's my 4th cousin... and he rides my bus, and last year (in 7th grade) we became pretty close and everything (that was the year we figured out we were related). By the way, he's about half a year younger than me and in a grade lower. And he is really WRONG. Like, he's really perverted, but he is hilarious. So now that I'm in 8th grade, I've really missed him over the summer-we didn't do anything together. I don't talk to him much because I'm always in the very back, but I've found myself... uhm... trying to get his attention sort of. Here comes the really bizarre part... well, I think I might like him.... oh God that sounds weird... so that's my dilemma. I can't e...

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The "perfect" guy


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 12:47 am

So I'm currently dating a guy and he is absolutely wonderful. He has so many qualities that I look for in a guy and then some. Anyone from the outside looking in would think that we make a good couple. However, there is something inside of me that has me questioning a lot of things. I don't know why, but something, and I'm not quite sure what it is, doesn't feel right.

Could this feeling be my instincts telling me that something isn't right, or do many people feel this way when they believe they've found "the one."

PLEASE help! I need insight!

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Hes not a real guy


Posted Friday September 19 2008, 12:37 am

Ok so I have started to like this guy and we have been friends for a long time. We just realized that we have feelings for eachother and surprisingly its really not that awkward. The only thing that i am hesitant about is that hes not like a manly man and he doesnt ahve alot of guy friends. It kind of bothers me because I want him to be a man's man..thats what im attracted to. What shouldi do about this? should i tell him and whats your opinion?

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Too young?


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 11:41 pm

So simply put;
I am a 16 year old girl.
Can I be in love?

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confused about my ex


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 11:28 pm

i dated my ex for 9 months we broke up 3 months ago..i never wanted to break up with her she just wanted some space and figure things out in her life...after we broke up she stopped wearing her promise ring...this past week she called me and i basically poured my heart out to her about everything..telling her i wanna be with her i miss her and all that..so she tells me she would like to work things out but take it a step at a time...she told me give her time she will come around...saturday we hung out for a lil bit and she was wearing the ring i got her...so ever since monday i havnt heard from her ive been texting her i called her twice..i just really need advice on what to do and if things look good between us and if things would work...i...

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homecoming


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 10:51 pm

I want to have a homecoming date this year. Our homecoming is in a little over a month. There is this one guy that I like but I'm worried he may be out of my league. He's a senior and I'm a junior. I know him because he's in my jazz band and he's a drum major in our marching band. I don't talk to him a whole lot, but when I do, we both laugh a lot. He's cute but he's kind of shy as well. Would it be too weird for me to ask him to go with me? And also, how do I prepare for this so that it doesn't seem so out of the blue? Thanks.

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I need help..


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 9:26 pm

Ok, um i'm 13 year's old and i really like this guy but the problem is he lives mega far away and he's older than be by a couple year's. He say'd he like's me alot. And that since i love him and he loves me we should be together, idk what too do. so is this ment too be or not?
Thanks in advance

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pregnant and unwed


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 8:50 pm

I am 21 and a few months ago i became engaged to my boyfriend of several months. I went to college in another state where he was playing in the minor baseball league. My parents had never met him and when i called to tell them that not only had i met a guy but we were engaged they were pretty upset. The wedding is now 2 weeks away and my fiance and i are leaving tomorrow to go home for the wedding. (We decided to get married in my home town)Yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. I'm not sure if i should wait until after the wedding has happened before i tell my parents or tell them right away. They are very conservative and since they didn't take to well to me marrying someone they haven't met yet, i'm pretty sure they won't take it to ...

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Not your typical 'does he like me'


Posted Thursday September 18 2008, 3:23 pm

(Need to know facts: I met his guy about two weeks ago, he is two years older than I am and I just moved into town.)

Alright so I just moved into my university dorm room and at one of the "meet and greet" parties I met this guy. He seemed like any other second year, trying to show off to all the freshmen.

Last weekend was my birthday so we went to a club and partied it up. By 'we' I mean my roomates, and such, including him. At the club my roomies and I were just celebrating my legal-ness and he comes over with the rest of the gang and says something like "group hug for the birthday girl!". Whatever, anyone could have said it right, but everyone else let go; he held on to my waist and st...

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