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The "perfect" guy
So I'm currently dating a guy and he is absolutely wonderful. He has so many qualities that I look for in a guy and then some. Anyone from the outside looking in would think that we make a good couple. However, there is something inside of me that has me questioning a lot of things. I don't know why, but something, and I'm not quite sure what it is, doesn't feel right.
Could this feeling be my instincts telling me that something isn't right, or do many people feel this way when they believe they've found "the one."
PLEASE help! I need insight!
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It has been my experience that your gut never lies. If something inside you is telling you to question things, or not to rush to trust then you should follow your instincts. Keep your eyes open and don't do anything that doesn't feel comfortable. If you feel that there are things that just don't add up, get to the core of the issues. I don't want to make u paranoid, but just take your time and be cautious. If you have nothing to worry about, you will find out as time goes on and the two of you become more comfortable. For now it is better to be safe rather than sorry.
*~ Jami
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I'm going to take a guess and say that you're having these 'questions' because you're worried that you'll get hurt if the relationship doesn't work out. And you're wondering whether he's too good to be true.
It's hard to tell you exactly what your feelings are telling you, since we can't feel them, but the above is my best guess as to why you having these questions. I would just say, let the relationship take its course and you'll find out sooner enough.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Hi,
you are exactly right! Never doubt your gut or your instincts. They will never steer you wrong. So don't get too serious until you find out more about him. He must be doing or saying something to make you feel this way. No one knows you better than you do. Just take it slow. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
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