Question Posted Friday September 19 2008, 12:44 am
I was friends with this guy since the 2nd grade and this last summer i realized what kind of person he is when he's older, two-faced so my question is do I give him a call to talk about this issue [AGAIN] or ignore him and get on with my life?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Jami answered Friday September 19 2008, 5:36 pm: I would say that since you have been friends with him for so long you should give him a call and talk to him about it. If he doesn’t seem to understand your feelings or brushes you off, then just move on with your life and leave him behind. He may not be the person that you once knew. Some people do tend to change as they get older. Whether it has been for the better or for the worse there is nothing you can do about the person he has become. If things don’t work out, let it go. Don’t allow that negative energy to consume you. Everyone has a time table in our lives and some people are meant to be there longer than others. If his time is up don’t hurt yourself by trying to force it.
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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday September 19 2008, 1:41 pm: ignore him and move on with your life. i went throw this with a ex boyfriend and his whole family. till this day they want to call or im wanting to talk as friends but then talk behind your back orlie etc. its not worth the pain and drama. friends are a dime a dozon [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
MADISAN answered Friday September 19 2008, 1:24 pm: You should really just try and move on, people like that just hold you back and push you down in life. Don't stress. If he wants to prove himself to you, and confront you about the issues and hold on, then thats when you can worry and speak to him. If he doesn't realize what he's doing wrong, he wont know what you're saying, so wait for him to realize, and in the meantime, move forward. [ MADISAN's advice column | Ask MADISAN A Question ]
ediemarie answered Friday September 19 2008, 10:53 am: Hi,
since you have been friends with him for so long, I would definitely call him out one it and ask him what the heck is going on with him. Ask him does he have some kind of problem with you and maybe the two of you can talk about it.
It all boils down to how much you value the friendship. How much is it worth to you to work it out. I hope I helped.
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