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love/in love confusion!
This is something I have been wondering for awhile. I know that you can love your family members and friends and be IN love with your mate. But is it possible to just love your boyfriend/girlfriend and not be in love with them? Please tell me anything you can, thank you :]
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Yep, you can be loving of your "mate" as you say. Like when 13 year olds talk about being in love with their boyfriend/girlfriend, chances are they arent (though it is possible, its just very, very uncommon). They are just loving of their gf/bf, but theyre not in love.
So yes, it iss possible to just love them, and be loving, but not in love.
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Hi,
yes it is possible to love your mate without being in love with them. It happens all the time. It is perfectly normal and there is nothing wrong with it.
Maybe things are just progressing slowly. You may not ever have romantic feelinfs toward him. Talk to your mate about it. Maybe he/she feels the same way. It might be best that the two of you remain plotonic. It could be the best friendship you'll ever have. Only you can be the true judge of that. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
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