Question Posted Friday September 19 2008, 11:11 pm
okay im 14/f and hes 13/m
im in high school now and hes in 8th grade.
we dated 3 times on and off for 4 months and then took a clean break from each other until the last feew weeks weve been talking all the time!.
so he came to a football game at my school and we were like flirting hard core in front of his girlfran so she walked away(i didnt know he even had a girl fran)okay so he was like oh shit ill be right back okay so like a 30 min later hes like come meet me here so i did and hes like i just broke up with my girlfan so i was like you had one oh my bad and hes like yeah so a lil bit later we held hands and we sat by a wall and his hand was around me and he was tickeling me and it was cute so then he stoped and i looked at him and we just started to make out and i was his first makeout. i think i might like him still or again im not sure if i was just on the rebond off of another guy i had a thing for but nothing happened. do you think i do?? is it bad if i made out with him after he broke up with his girlfand? was i the reebond girl?
Additional info, added Saturday September 20 2008, 11:19 am: oh and he told some of his friends and they told his ex girlfriend so now shes like whore and im like what the fuck i font know you! and shes like blah blah blah. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jami answered Saturday September 20 2008, 4:21 pm: It seems like you probably do still have some feelings for him. You didn't know he had a girlfriend, so that is not your fault. I don't think you are the rebound girl either because it seems that he likes you more than he likes her and he proved that by dumping her to hang out with you. Take it slow, you will know soon enough if you realy do still like him. Good luck! : )
Oh and by the way, his ex girlfriend is just jealous, don't let her get you upset because he left her and it was his own choice to do so. She will have to just accept it....you can't win them all. [ Jami's advice column | Ask Jami A Question ]
cheifbritneeilu answered Saturday September 20 2008, 3:55 pm: You weren't a rebound, I think he dumped her cause of you.. However I don't think you like him I think the makeout confused you. And lett her say what she wants she's pissed he dumped her. [ cheifbritneeilu's advice column | Ask cheifbritneeilu A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday September 20 2008, 11:15 am: normally rebound people refer more to liek the people that got broken up with. like his exgf, if she made out with a guy that would be the rebound. he obviously probably has feelings for you, so no your not exactly the rebound. and as you said...is it bad that you hooked up with him? i personally would considser it not, because you guys do have a history and have cared/do care about each other. plus if it does look bad, hes the one that should look bad, not you. your not the one that just dumped someone.
hope that helped yaaa [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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