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confused about my ex
i dated my ex for 9 months we broke up 3 months ago..i never wanted to break up with her she just wanted some space and figure things out in her life...after we broke up she stopped wearing her promise ring...this past week she called me and i basically poured my heart out to her about everything..telling her i wanna be with her i miss her and all that..so she tells me she would like to work things out but take it a step at a time...she told me give her time she will come around...saturday we hung out for a lil bit and she was wearing the ring i got her...so ever since monday i havnt heard from her ive been texting her i called her twice..i just really need advice on what to do and if things look good between us and if things would work...i really would like a girls opinion but anyone feel free to answer
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hey, i am sure she doesn't mean to be hurting you. maybe you came on to strong or something. if she is blowing you off chances are she could be talking to other guys as well. leave her a voice mail if she doesnt answer let her no what is on your mind but keep it short in simple. tell her you need to talk to her about a few things because you are well confused and you feel like she is pushing you away something like that.
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Hi,
I think that when people tell you what they want, you should give it to them. Give her the space that she needs to figure out whatever it is that is going on with her.
The fact that she is wearing the promise ring again is a good sign, but you're going back to doing the things she said she didn't like.
Maybe she thought things were moving too fast before and she wanted to slow things down. Maybe she doesn't want to get too serious.
Chill out for a minute and let her call you. Believe me, if she wants you, she'll call!
Good luck,
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Give her more space to breathe. You constantly calling and texting her is probably making it more difficult for her to come to a decision about the two of you.
Considering the fact that she is wearing her promise ring (which you presumably gave to her) and she wants to work things about between the two of you is a good sign that things may work out.
The important thing which both of you can do is to ensure that the things which forced the two of you to break up before don't happen again.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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