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How do you know she likes you?


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 5:21 pm

Me and this girl have been friends for a couple of years. We've talked on the phone and I gave her hints that I like her a lot. I wrote her a song on valentines day and remark her on her beauty. She doesn't really back away from me, usually. Until this year, I see her in the hallway, and she'll pretend that she doesn't see me. I'm afraid to talk to her because I think she'll reject or hate me. I really want to know if she likes me. If not, How do I get her to be at least my friend again. I am very patient with her as well. She's the type of girl who really doesn't know how to handle a relationship, so she doesn't call me, makes me do all the work. Sometimes I see her with another guy, the same guy. I still thinks she kind of likes me. I just want your opinion. Thanks!!!

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Lutheran Woman


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 4:28 pm

back in the day can lutherean missoary women marry/ have sex?

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Animal Ive become


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 2:45 pm

I don't like who I am or What ive become....2 years ago I had gotten out of a really bad physically and emotionally abusive relationship....I was engaged at 18 with the guy I had lost my virginity to and found out he had cheated on me the entire 2 years we had been together! since I was 16! He treated me like shit, and I had to move out of his apartment and back in with my mom. He told me that he had cheated on me with numerous girls and that everytime he went to a party he hooked up with someone! And he went to ALOT of parties....I asked him how many girls and he said he lost track after 20. Needless to say I got tested, but I was so hurt from what he did, I have never been the same since...I'm a bitter brutally honest person and I now liv...

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idk what to do


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 12:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years, we kinda broke up today, and idk what to do to get over him? its hurts so bad, i love him so much.. what should i do to just get over him? i really need help, thnks.

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Boyfriend Hates Haunted Houses


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 10:33 am

I'm a Halloween baby, so I love haunted houses and everything that shows up around my birthday. My boyfriend (21), however, doesn't. It's not that he doesn't like haunted houses, it's that he has a tendency to knock out the people when they jump at you (reflex). He's a big guy and it tends to get him in trouble, but I really wanted him to come with me and my brother this year since my bro and I hit a bunch of them (trying to find the spookiest and such).
Any ideas how we could compromise here so I can get my boy to celebrate with me and not get hauled off for assault?

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Is this the real deal?? **This is a love story you HAVE GOT to read!!**


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 6:03 am


Hi I'm Sarah I'm 19 & my boyfriend David is 18 (Turns 19 next month). I will ask my questions now: "Is this truly love? & Will we last?" but you miiiight want to read the synopsis first.

We liked each other the whole 2nd quarter of Sophomore year. Actually he liked me longer. But we never started talking until mid way through the year. We instantly had a connection. All of our friends could tell we liked each other. School ended & summer hit & he came one day with a bunch of flowers of all my favorite colors & a fake rose that he hand made & said "I Want You To Be My Girlfriend Until The Last Rose Dies". He pretty much won me over. & within time we exchanged our ...

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NOTHING BUT FIGHTING ENGAGED COUPLE


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 1:06 am

hello everyone, my fiance' and I got engaged this past summer because we do love each other. He proposed on the beach, but ALL we do is fight. We've been fighting since last january on and off but now we don't even get along. I bought us our own house and we now live together. We always just get into fights and we always cry. I just want our relationship to be happy again. He says I always "bitch" constantly (but he never cleans up after himself and never gives me hardly any affection) He told me recently that the dog treats him better then I do and he hates living with me. I can admit I can be somewhat controlling but it just hurts me that I never get any affection. We're both stubborn and try talking to each other about how we f...

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5 guys wow.


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 9:23 pm

i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, ...

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How to get over a boy who doesn't love you


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 8:35 pm

Age: 14
Gender: female

Before I ask, I am going to provide a bit of background information. So there's this guy, I have loved him for almost over a year now, but we have not dated nor talked about it. Let's say I admire him passionately from afar, but we are very close friends. Just last Saturday, I went to his birthday party, and I really believed he was starting to understand that I liked him and maybe even like me back in the same way. The next day I walked into school and found out from one of my friends that he started to go out with this girl on Sunday whom he had known for less than a month as she was new to our school.

Needless to say, I felt horrible and was depressed for the rest of the day. I ...

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should i feel guilty?


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 7:36 pm

so i broke up with this boy over a year ago, but I'm still in love with him...
ive tried asking him out a couple times, were close friends still and i have told him how i feel but he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore.
i moped around just thinking id be alone forever for a while, then i started dating again, but i always end up dumping them because i feel guilty for still loving my ex.
should i be feeling guilty? tell me anything besides give it time... thanks!

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so nice yet im nervous


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 6:59 pm

so theres this guy i like. he likes me to. and i think we might go out. nd we will hang out, im sure. the thing is.... im nervous b/c ive only hooked up with one boy and what if im a bad kisser? or what if im bad at bj/hj? ppl say he wont care if he likes me. but how can i get better? i dont want to leave a bad impresion.

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I need advice on sex


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 6:34 pm

Im a female, and I have had sex with 3 people, one small medium and big. I dont know whats wrong with me I cant feel anything when penetrated. I dont get tingles I dont have anything it just feels like rubbing. I can feel clit stimulation so.... whats wrong? how come nothing happens? Im very in love with the man Im sleeping with and still nothing.

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The Hardest Question To answer....


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 5:21 pm

How do you know your in love?

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Hot Junior Guy


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 4:00 pm

16/f

Over the summer I met a guy and he was adorable and i fell for him so badly, but he lived about 40 minutes away. So i saw him only 3 times. And
i just started at a new school and i met a guy named Ryan. He's a junior and he's really cute. Ryan looks and acts just like the guy i met over the summer. I developed an awful crush on Ryan and i think it may be because he is just like the summer boy. So one time in class Ryan asked me what my name was and what town i was from. Then later that week he said hi to me. Then this week he came up to me at lunch and started talking to me then he went back to his table and asked me if i wanted to sit with him but i said no thanks. The day after his whole table was telling...

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confused


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 3:33 pm

16/f
Alright, well i like this guy and we talk every night for an hour or 2 on the phone. This has been going on for about 2 weeks now. Well whenever my friends ask him about me and stuff, he tells them different things. Like, one day he told one friend that we are about to date, and then yesterday he told a dif. friend that he dosen't know. Also, today i was walking out of school and i looked out of the corner of my eye and he was right behind me. He dosen't know that i saw him, he was only like 5 inches away and he didn't even say hi and i am pretty sure he could see me!! i am so confused, he talks to me on the phone but at school, he dosen't, he has before but not much. I don't get it! i am so confused! His name is steven and mine is cassie!

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Curse??? Maybe?


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 11:11 am

Every person i like,
LEAVES!!
Im a teen - every person i have liked,
has left the school, (and they did not know that i liked them)... this isn't just a coincidence. BELIEVE ME - like EVERY single one left.

WHY IS THIS.

is this like some kind of CURSE or sumfin?!?!


All answers are appreciated.

Kronix

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Where do we go from here?


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 10:10 am

I'm (almost) 21 f, he's 23. Long story as short as I can make it, we dated officially for about nine months in '05-'06. Our relationship kinda sucked, neither of us were ourselves (I was a scared creature in a new environment and he was medicated for depression), and he was emotionally abusive. I ended it after he basically pushed me to it. Somehow, we wound up in kind of an on-and-off friends with benefits relationship, and I was okay because I just wanted his attention. I tried to move on, dated someone else, and ran into my ex after 2 months. All the feelings were still there, and I pretty much ran back into his arms, but not into a relationship. (He's a recently admitted commitmentphobe (after I pointed it out, he said "...you're r...

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break up ??


Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 6:06 am

okay so me and my boyfriend have had problems a couple of times. we've only been together for like two weeks and we already have problems. so this time,I told him I how I felt about him.I mean like I nearly pour my heart out to him but all he can say is ok,oh,yeah,and awww. it's like he's talking fresh to me.I told him how I felt afterwards and he's like baby ima go sleep.I love you.bye. wth is that! I'm over here trying to talk to him about it but he's gonna go sleep.it's like he doesn't care.he always and I mean always do that.I don't wanna break up with him because I love him too much and naw I ain't young and it ain't early. what should I do? I love him too much to even break up with him.

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A boyfriend


Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 11:57 pm

14/f

For so long I've been wanting a boyfriend. One of my friends always gets a boyfriend when she wants one. She is pretty and nice, she is smart. I'm different from other people in my group of friends. All of us are different. I'm kinda shy but I can be outgoing if I actually talk to a person more. But I've had 3 boyfriends which was like 2 years ago. Now I don't even think boys like me. Some have called me hot and all that but seriously. I think I will never get a boyfriend. Is is like weird to be thinking this? I know what most people will say. The right guy will come. But I want to at least know what its like to have a boyfriend since it was when I was in 7th grade I hardly remember anything. I don't think I'm really ug...

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Josh and I


Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 10:48 pm

I been dating this guy named Josh on and off since 1999.We break up and get back together more times than i can count.I go a month or so not calling him and then I break down and call him out of the blue.I am on medication for my urges to call Josh and my mood swings.How do I stop breaking down and calling Josh out of the blue.We always break up and get back together more times than I can count.Josh keep telling me he wants to die and he will kill himself.Why do I keep doing this to myself by going back to him?

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