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How to get over a boy who doesn't love you
Age: 14
Gender: female
Before I ask, I am going to provide a bit of background information. So there's this guy, I have loved him for almost over a year now, but we have not dated nor talked about it. Let's say I admire him passionately from afar, but we are very close friends. Just last Saturday, I went to his birthday party, and I really believed he was starting to understand that I liked him and maybe even like me back in the same way. The next day I walked into school and found out from one of my friends that he started to go out with this girl on Sunday whom he had known for less than a month as she was new to our school.
Needless to say, I felt horrible and was depressed for the rest of the day. I still am depressed, and he doesn't even know why. I really love him, and I want him to be happy, but I just don't know what to do. I can barely stand to be around him anymore, but I don't want to ruin our friendship either. Does anyone know what I should do?
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heeey... i'm in a similiar situation, you see, i'm also in love with a boy and we are friends, we've been friends for less than a year, during that time, well we had a girlfriend who cheated on him, so it was really hard to see them together and painfull to see him kindda suffer because of her (they weren't really in love, they had been friends for like 2 weeks.. their relationship lasted hmmm 2 months )... he had no idea of my feelings, even though im quite obvious, and a few weeks ago one of my friends told him in the most inmadure way! she gave him a piece of paper!!(this was on a friday).. but we talked by msn, and things seem to be ok, like nothing happen and as friends as always... but a after a whole weekend of thinking what to do, i decided to face him, told him how i felt and what i felt about him had nothing to do with him being a good-looking guy (he thought everything was about that ¬¬)... soooo..after that, we avoided each other for like 2 days, then everything was like before the paper thing day...but now, after almost a month of that.. things are much better, we are more friends like before, talk more, have more confidence, i may not have a boyfriend, but i have won a best friend... you should tell him how you feel, things may be difficult at first, but then just greater things come =) .. i wasn't goin to tell him i swear! but im happy that he knows...after discussing about my feeling with him, now there's nothing to hide.. you tell him girl, you will not regret it, maybe at first... but not after a few weeks =)
i hope i helped with my life example...
good luck with everything ;)
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It's clear to say that if you had of told him this to begin with then you wouldn't be feeling this way, but there is no point dwelling on that as it will only make you feel worse than you already do!! I can understand that you are feeling upset, and trust me, this has probably happened to every girl out there!! I know exactly how you feel, you really like him and you want him to be happy - but with you. You just need to try and take your mind off it for now, i'm not saying you should forget about him bcos that wont happen cos you love him, but he may not last long with this new girl, and once he has finished with her, you should be open and tell him how you feel.
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Hi,
sometimes when you don't step up to the plate and say what you feel, someone out the blue comes and grabs what you want. YOu probably should have found a way to tell him how you felt. You can't ever assume that a boy knows what you want. You have to tell him. That happens sometimes. I would't suggest you telling him anything about it right now since he is with someone.
It really doesn't matter how long he has known her. He was attracted to her and asked her out.
You kind of lost out this time, but that doesn't mean you can never be with him. Continue to be his friend and see what happens.
Perk up. Most likely his new relationship won't last and you'll have your chance again. Don't miss out.
I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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