Member Since: October 5, 2008
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Age: 14
Gender: female
Before I ask, I am going to provide a bit of background information. So there's this guy, I have loved him for almost over a year now, but we have not dated nor talked about it. Let's say I admire him passionately from afar, but we are very close friends. Just last Saturday, I went to his birthday party, and I really believed he was starting to understand that I liked him and maybe even like me back in the same way. The next day I walked into school and found out from one of my friends that he started to go out with this girl on Sunday whom he had known for less than a month as she was new to our school.
Needless to say, I felt horrible and was depressed for the rest of the day. I still am depressed, and he doesn't even know why. I really love him, and I want him to be happy, but I just don't know what to do. I can barely stand to be around him anymore, but I don't want to ruin our friendship either. Does anyone know what I should do? (link)
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heeey... i'm in a similiar situation, you see, i'm also in love with a boy and we are friends, we've been friends for less than a year, during that time, well we had a girlfriend who cheated on him, so it was really hard to see them together and painfull to see him kindda suffer because of her (they weren't really in love, they had been friends for like 2 weeks.. their relationship lasted hmmm 2 months )... he had no idea of my feelings, even though im quite obvious, and a few weeks ago one of my friends told him in the most inmadure way! she gave him a piece of paper!!(this was on a friday).. but we talked by msn, and things seem to be ok, like nothing happen and as friends as always... but a after a whole weekend of thinking what to do, i decided to face him, told him how i felt and what i felt about him had nothing to do with him being a good-looking guy (he thought everything was about that ¬¬)... soooo..after that, we avoided each other for like 2 days, then everything was like before the paper thing day...but now, after almost a month of that.. things are much better, we are more friends like before, talk more, have more confidence, i may not have a boyfriend, but i have won a best friend... you should tell him how you feel, things may be difficult at first, but then just greater things come =) .. i wasn't goin to tell him i swear! but im happy that he knows...after discussing about my feeling with him, now there's nothing to hide.. you tell him girl, you will not regret it, maybe at first... but not after a few weeks =)
i hope i helped with my life example...
good luck with everything ;)
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