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break up ??
okay so me and my boyfriend have had problems a couple of times. we've only been together for like two weeks and we already have problems. so this time,I told him I how I felt about him.I mean like I nearly pour my heart out to him but all he can say is ok,oh,yeah,and awww. it's like he's talking fresh to me.I told him how I felt afterwards and he's like baby ima go sleep.I love you.bye. wth is that! I'm over here trying to talk to him about it but he's gonna go sleep.it's like he doesn't care.he always and I mean always do that.I don't wanna break up with him because I love him too much and naw I ain't young and it ain't early. what should I do? I love him too much to even break up with him.
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Two weeks?
Too much too fast, both of you.
You aren't in love with anyone after two weeks. At two weeks you shouldn't be as invested in him as you are.
As stated below, pouring out your heart that you love someone two weeks in is considered a danger sign by most people. Sometimes a deal breaker.
Yes, you're young. Yes, its early. You need to cool your jets a little bit here.
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So... I'm just gonna put this to you straight...
You probably freaked him out. Two weeks is not long enough for most people to fall in complete, obsessive love (even though you think two weeks isn't early). I'm assuming you're younger, maybe 13-15 years old (even though you said you aren't young), so it makes sense that you'd fall fast and hard, but you need to realize that many people will not fall nearly as fast or hard. If you're not 13-15 or somewhere in that range then you aren't then I don't know what to tel you. Other people aren't going to reciprocate the feelings because they don't feel them at two weeks into a relationship. Two months into a relationship some people aren't sure they LOVE you. It's life and it's how adults are.
You need to understand that you need to be patient and hold your tongue until you've been with someone for a while or you'll run them all off. Trust me on this... I've been there (on both sides). It's not fun (on either side).
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