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5 guys wow.
i'm not a whore,
i'm just confused.
i like 5 boys.
but, i'm scared of commitment.
there's a pro and con to each one of them.
and i can narrow it down to two,
but still.
i'm confused.
help?
1. con; he has a gf.
pro; he flirts and is really sweet, & i've been crushing on him a yearrr.
2. con; we're super close, so it'd be awkward between us if we broke up, and i'm not sure how he feels, so it would be weird if i told him.
pro; he's really religious, amazing personality, his sister thinks the world of him, and i'm attracted to both personality anddd looks.
3. con; he's a senior, so about to graduate and go to the navy.
pro; he's really nice, i can tell he likes me, we flirt a lot and are going to homecoming together.
4. con; he's at college so who knows what could happen with him and other chicks, they have co-ed dorms, and hes my ex.
pro; i miss him, he was my first kiss, and i love it when he's around. his hugs, our playfulness, etc.
5. con; possibly screwed a pig and all his friends hate me, plus he flirts with like a jillion other girls.
pro; he's really nice to me, and walks me to like every class.
if i narrowed it down, it would be 2 and 3.
oh, and i'm a sophomore.
help?!
(:
thanks. that would be great.
sorry for the length.
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as i was reading this,2 and 3 really stood out.
these are the reasons why you SHOULDN'T date the other ones.
1)if he has a girl friend now,and is flirting with you,who's to say if you guys do go out, he wont do the same to you? he could also be talked to other girls besides you,so he would be best left as a friend :}
4)like you said,because he's at college he has a lot opportunitys to cheat on you and you wouldn't have a clue ! Also, unless you reall made a mistake of letting an ex go,they should be left an ex.
5)everything about five screams player, and screwed a pig? hahaha, what?! sorry..anywho the downside is his buddys, cause if they don't accept you then he must act different around them;;so that shows he might not be the person you think he is.
i can see why you wouldn't want to go out with 2, but i'd say at least give it a shot. 3 does seem amazing, but you won't be seeing him for awhile and it'll be that much harder letting him go into the army =/. besides if you do go out with 2 and then break up, it's only going to be awkward if you make it so. and if you ever give it a shot, you'll both either think "this is weird, lets be friends" or "i like this, letsss stay together :]"
I'd say see how it goes with 2 and 3, whichever one you click with more and feel most comfortable around in a relationship (=. the rest,haha,keep as friends :P
good luck gurll~!
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haha wow the other person who commented this is so dumb...but anyway DEFINITELY number 2 no questions asked, because it doesn't matter if your close, you need to take a chance and go for it because chances are he likes you too and you will be happy together and have a good,loving, solid relationship. don't let worrying about things being awkward after the break-up hold you back from being with a really good guy and doing what you want. maybe you guys won't even break up! from what you wrote, it seems like you would have an amazing relationship, and if you do end up breaking up later on you can deal with the problem with awkwardness when it happens instead of worrying about it now. just GO FOR IT! and don't let anything hold you back. plus all of the other guys seem like they definitely wouldn't work out.
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Alright so yer saying that Con is a boy and PRO is another boy right ?
Well i think you should DEF go for Pro, con seems to much of a flirt plus he has a girlfriend
Pro as you said he may like you so I think you should go for pro.
Bye:)
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