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How do you know she likes you?
Me and this girl have been friends for a couple of years. We've talked on the phone and I gave her hints that I like her a lot. I wrote her a song on valentines day and remark her on her beauty. She doesn't really back away from me, usually. Until this year, I see her in the hallway, and she'll pretend that she doesn't see me. I'm afraid to talk to her because I think she'll reject or hate me. I really want to know if she likes me. If not, How do I get her to be at least my friend again. I am very patient with her as well. She's the type of girl who really doesn't know how to handle a relationship, so she doesn't call me, makes me do all the work. Sometimes I see her with another guy, the same guy. I still thinks she kind of likes me. I just want your opinion. Thanks!!!
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I'm going to start off by saying this: if a girl smiles A LOT when she's around you, she probably likes you as more than a friend.
The Top 5 other things to look for:
1. She laughs at your jokes.
- No matter how many times she's heard them, or how totally lame they are, she'll laugh at them. End of story.
2. She touches you (not sexually, get your head outta the gutter!)
- She plays with your hair, or fixes your shirt or something. Maybe she even holds your hand, that's a pretty good sign that she likes you.
3. She includes you in things.
- She talks to you even when she's with her friends. She makes an effort to include you, like by asking you things. Even lame questions like, 'What color should I paint my nails?' might be her way of trying to include you.
4. She makes an effort to talk to you/see you.
- She texts you just to say hello, she's late to class just because she wanted to hug you good bye, or she calls you just to see what you're doing.
5. She trusts you, and talks to you seriously.
- She tells you things that she might not normally tell others. Like, if she's in a bad mood and tells others she's fine, she'll actually tell you that she failed that geometry test, or her friends aren't including her lately. She opens up to you and isn't afraid to be herself.
Even though every girl is different, these are the top 5 things girls do when they like a guy. So, chances are, if she's holding your hand and texting you saying :" Hey whatcha up to? :)", chances are she's doing it all for a reason.
To me, it seems like this girl is nervous or afraid to like you. I really think you should talk to her about it, and let her know you like her. It's the only way to know for sure and life is way too short to not take chances once in a while.
Best of luck, and if you need any more help send a question to my inbox =]
-Laura (16-f)
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i think she might just be scared because she might feel things are going too fast or she might not knoe how to respond since she doesnt really know how to handle relationships just talk to her and ask her wats going on and if talking to her in person is a little scary try email i hope i helped good luck. :)
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