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you'll wanna read this (insane mess)


Question Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 6:21 pm

okay im gonna try to put this as simply as possible.
(sorry this is so long but its interesting haha trust me)
and as easy as possible to read.
okay so theres this kid,Jake, hes a couple years older than me.
we used to be good friends until he moved
before he lived directly across from my house
and Jake moved back into that same house.
well when he moved back it was kinda a surprise
so i got intouch with him.
we texted for a long time and hung out.
well the day after we hung out
he got drunk and told his friends we had sex
i confronted him of it and he said that he was really really sorry
and that he was drunk not remembering if he had said that
but that it was possible that he did.
well i guess 2 days after that Jake got a girlfriend
thats fine i mean i wasnt too attached to em
well ive been talking to his really good friend lately,Mike.
hes super nice and really good looking
weve been trying to hang out because hes always across the street
because like i said Mike really good friends with Jake
well i was talking to Mike the other day
and he asked if everything with jake happened really happened
and i asked if he meant what Jake said at the football game
and mike said it wasnt.
i guess jake said that we had sex right after we hung out
because mike was at jakes house when i came back from hanging out with him.
well i told mike that it wasnt true and he said that he believed me
and repeatedly said that he didnt care
well now im wondering if mike is only talking to me because he heard that i gave jake sex.

so i guess my question is, do you think mike was just talking to me because of the whole situation or does he really want to get to know me, like hes acted like he does?

and can i just have some advice with what to do, or what you think is going on.

sorry this is soo long

thanks though f/16/west virginia


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Additional info, added Thursday October 2 2008, 6:27 pm:
and the second time jake said that we had sex. he was completely sober.

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BarbieKyd95 answered Saturday October 4 2008, 4:25 pm:
to answer this question,
i really wouldnt noe if he is or not
but you should hang out with him more and see wat he does or you could go out with him 4 a few days and try it out.. most boyz only go for thing and thats sex..but theres some good boyz out there that love you 4 you and Mike might be it you never noe just have hope!

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Katlyn answered Saturday October 4 2008, 2:42 am:
K so i think this mike guy is only into you because he was told by jake that you two had sex so i think you should just sit down mike and ask him wats going on and if he says it confidently that he likes you and wants to get to know you then you should continue hanging out and if he kinda of says no i dont care about that i was just wondering and he seems a little unconfident then you should probably stop hanging out with him and find some new guys to hang out with.

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