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should i feel guilty?


Question Posted Wednesday October 1 2008, 7:36 pm

so i broke up with this boy over a year ago, but I'm still in love with him...
ive tried asking him out a couple times, were close friends still and i have told him how i feel but he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore.
i moped around just thinking id be alone forever for a while, then i started dating again, but i always end up dumping them because i feel guilty for still loving my ex.
should i be feeling guilty? tell me anything besides give it time... thanks!


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staceyxlove answered Friday October 3 2008, 2:59 pm:
The only way that any new relationship will work is when you are over your ex. & i feel for you bcos it's really not easy. don't feel bad for feeling guilty, you can't control your feelings. I would wait til you feel differently about your ex before you date new people bcos it won't help the problem, it may only make it worse!! good luck!!

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ediemarie answered Friday October 3 2008, 9:36 am:
Hi,
I understand what you're feeling, but I don't think you should feel guilty for loving your ex. It's a natural feeling.
I agree with the previous columnist that you should probably wait before dating again. YOu're not coming into the relationship as a whole person. Only part of you is there. The other part is pining for someone else.
Try doing other activities to get over your ex like going out with other friends who are not his friends. YOu don't need to hear about what he's doing or anything. That will only make you feel worse. Eventually things will get better and you can move on with another relationship. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie

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Dontyoufakeit13 answered Friday October 3 2008, 3:26 am:
I Think you should stop dating until your sure your over your exes.So it wouldnt be Unfair for the guy your dating,It seems like your really eager to find somone and date them
you shouldnt do that
i think you should wait before dating anyone else until your over the guys you dated before.

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