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boyfriend troubles...


Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 9:27 pm

So, I'm going out with this guy and I don't really see him a lot because of our schedules at the moment but hes always saying stuff, like he misses me and he thinks about me a lot.. but he never calls or texts or anything. Another thing he does is sometimes when we're talking on aim, he'll just all of a sudden leave without saying bye or anything. Is all of this normal? Its my first relationship and idk, my friend and her boyfriend are always talking and texting all the time, but this guy dosen't seem to want to. Anyway, if anyone has any advice, let me know. Thanks :)

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teacher?


Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 5:13 pm

so there is this student teacher in our class and i see him everyday (when i'm at school of course) and he's so attractive and has an amazing smile. i'm only 16 and he's 22 or 23. to me that's just weird. but i know i couldn't have him, because the age difference and he's technically a teacher. i don't know what it is, but i know i like older guys. they just seem to be better than some of the immature guys at my school.

he is a teacher and that's never going to happen. should i stop thinking about him? should i just not worry about it?

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does he like me? :]


Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 12:47 pm

so on friday i hung out with my friends at a football game and was with this kid john* so me and john* were hanging out too. and if i went somewhere he would come too. and he kept going in my pockets and taking my phone and camera. and i was freezingg. so he kept asking me if i was cold so naturally, i said yes and i got a big hugg. and that happened alott. :] so i like john* then i didnt see him before i left :[ and when i was walking out i was with my friend devin* and devin* had his arm around me but we are just friends. but i did like him before, but don't now. i dont think he likes me and in front of us was my other friend joe* and he was with me and john* before and now he sees me with devin*? so idk if joes* going to tell john* or n...

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long story... very dramatic


Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 10:59 am

About six months ago, I went to this competition that a club of ours was having at school. There was a boy there, who I met from another state, and we decided that we were going to go out to dinner that night. He kept on begging for a kiss, but I really didn't want to give it to him. I was seeing someone at the time, however, this dinner wasn't exactly a date. It was the clubs who had gotten together. But, either way, he wanted me to kiss him, and i really did not want to. I thought that this is where the story would end. But, obviously, it did not stop there. We exchanged e-mails and kept writing back and forth to each other. I thought it was pretty cool, kind of like pen pals. Soon, the summer came, and I didn't hear so much from him, bec...

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'player type'


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 10:39 pm

i'm really into a player type of guy, he dated this girl for five years and been broke up w/her for one. i've dated a guy for almost five and been broken up for two months. so emotionally we are still healing. but he use to sleep around, and he's so sweet and hard to show his feelings. he wants to appear 'cool' all the time. how do i know what he thinks of me? are there any signs? b/c i just like him, and don't wanna go into deep if he is just going to use me.

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Best Friend has a gf, but still might like me


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 9:50 pm

I have a best friend, whos a guy. He use to like me but I was to nervous to admit it so when he told my other best friend she told him i just liked him as a friend so he told he was going to try to give up. He ended up with a girlfriend the next week and I found out. Everyone said he just went out with her to get over me. They've been dating for about 4 months now, he says he loves her and stuff. I don't believe it, everytime he's with me, theres something there and we flirt a lot. His girlfriend goes to a different school. But the more we get closer, he just keeps pushing me away. I'm really depressed. I know I had my chance with him, and probably still do. The whole situation is making me depressed. Should I try to get over him or what? A...

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i need advice


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 7:37 pm

hiow do you you know when you love somone

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Ex boyfriend's girlfriend


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 2:14 pm

me: 16/f

Okay, so i'll give ya'll a little update to what's going on in love life.
here we go: so, in march i broke up with my boyfriend because i didnt feel the same anymore, i found him clingy, and i thought he was awkward.(dated nearly 6 months) afterwards i felt relieved that we ended it. it was rough at first and i was really depressed but i'm a pretty positive person, so within a few days or so i was back on my feet smiling and laughing :). we attempted the whole friendship thing...but i could feel it turning back into a romance, and i didnt want that to happen. soo, i ignored him. MISTAKE! he got really mad and confused and didnt tell me that he felt that way...so 4 months later!... his best friend adds me on ms...

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how do i help him out?


Posted Saturday October 4 2008, 11:58 am

my boyfriend has post cuncussion syndrom from a tackle when he was playing football which makes him really depressed. it's suppose to last for a month. i'm not sure what i can do to help because he's been acting so isolated. he doesn't want to talk and i'm not able to see him over the weekend so i sent him a message telling him how happy he makes me and what a great guy he is and that i'm always gonna be here for him. but i don't think that's enough.

i want to do more to help but i don't know what i can do besides just be there for him. it hurts me to see him so sad. i love him so much too.

any suggestions?


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flirrt


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 11:28 pm

okay so i am single and i love flirting, its fun and playful and its just natural. sometimes i dont even mean it. the only thing that worries me is some times i might take it too far once in a while. i dont want that to lead to leading a guy on, im just trying to have fun. how can i control it a little more?
heres an example: i just met this guy, well call him brandon, and hes a pretty great guy but im still getting to know him and im not sure if i like him like him yet. im pretty flirty with him and he flirts back but i think he likes me more than i like him, im just trying to have fun and flirt, but i think he thinks its more, im just not looking for a relationship right now. help! what should i do? i dont want to just stop flirtin...

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i dont know how a guy feels about me, but i liek him.


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 11:24 pm

Ok, well i really like this guy, and we are VERY close friends, but the more i see him, the more feelings i have for the guy. I can't be positive if he likes me or not though, he shows some signs, but then doesnt, and we dont go to the same school, but i go to everyone of his football games every week and see him every weekend. However, i do not know his feelings for me, but i like him more and more everyday, so what should I do ?

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i dont know what to call this


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 6:11 pm

My ex boyfriend and I were going out for ten months. I moved to a different state before our nine month anniversary, but he came down and stayed with me for august. he went home and after that everything started to become really weird. We started fighting more and we just broke up. But we thought we were going to try and work it out after we had some time to ourselves, he said that he wanted to be with me still and that he wouldnt date anyone else. But then I kept hearing things from other people that he was seen with other girls, and one of my friends said that one of HER friends had been talking with him since school started and they liked eachother. Now, the other day, what happens, he says he wants to see other people and gets a girlfr...

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dont want to leave him


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 5:47 pm

SORRY IF ITS LONG
I love my boyfriend every much and i know that's very childish to say because we've only been going out a little more than 3months. But I really do. Anyways the problem is he never takes me out! I mean hes the type that would rather sit on the couch cuddling than to go to a party or hang out with friends. In the last 3 months we've only gone to his house and maybe out to eat sometime. after the first month i got to think he was trying to avoid seeing someone and finding out we were going out! but as soon as school started(he not in school anymore only i am) all our friends(the ones still in school) asked me why they never saw us together or go to any parties...and how when they run it to him hes always saying how go...

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What Should エ do?


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 3:36 pm

Female
21 yrs Old

Umm... エ met this boy I've been talking to him for over 3 months now. エ was a Virgin when エ met him, we hung out had a good time and next came the sex. エ wasnt scared nor did it hurt but after we were done エ had nothing to say to him... He calls エ didn't answer エ didn't kno how to react to him. NOW he won't answer his phone wen エ call... what cud that mean? Does it mean he doesn't want to be bothered with me anymore. Did エ turn him off, what cud it be. エ think ima have a nervous breakdown エ dnt kno what エ did to make him act like that. Please give me some advice....

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Why does it matter to me?


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 12:57 pm

18/m

There was this girl that I liked, and when I told her how I felt, she said she didn't feel the same way, and I was ok with that. It didn't really bother me. We still are friends, and we still talk. I had kind of figured that she liked someone else, I didn't really know who, but that didn't bother me either. Sometime around last week, I found out who she liked, and it made me really mad, and that what I'm trying to figure out. I knew she liked someone, but once I found out who it was, it makes me mad. It's not a problem with the guy, I don't even know him.

Why does it make me so mad??

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dont understand stds


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 12:10 pm

hm dunno if this is a weird question but i dont understand the origins of stds. two virgins who have sex cannot give each other stds, right? the only way to get stds is from someone who already had it and that person prob got it from an experienced older partner who got it from someone else? does anyone get my drift?

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topics


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 10:50 am

what topics i disscussed with my girlfriend on phone?

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Ex-boyfriend Vs. Amazing Current Boyfriend


Posted Friday October 3 2008, 10:48 am

me: 17
ex: 18
current bf: 21

okay, so my boyfriend and i broke up at the beginning of august. we had dated for a year and almost 8 months.
Let me explain a little about this situation. He broke up with me for no apparent reason, while i was recovering from a tonsillectomy. He just walked out. then, two days after that
he came back to my house and begged for me back. he said he needed me and loved me more than anyone in the world and all that good stuff. So we gave it another try. Then we got in a fight and i caught him in a lie and he told me that i could never deserve anyone better than him, i could never get anyone better so i told him to lose my number. So we didn't talk for a few weeks. During...

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to show i love him in school


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 7:46 pm

whats some cute ways i can show my bf i love him in school. were open on everything but im just to nervous in school, iv ben hurt veryyy bad before by an ex. any suggestions at all??

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you'll wanna read this (insane mess)


Posted Thursday October 2 2008, 6:21 pm

okay im gonna try to put this as simply as possible.
(sorry this is so long but its interesting haha trust me)
and as easy as possible to read.
okay so theres this kid,Jake, hes a couple years older than me.
we used to be good friends until he moved
before he lived directly across from my house
and Jake moved back into that same house.
well when he moved back it was kinda a surprise
so i got intouch with him.
we texted for a long time and hung out.
well the day after we hung out
he got drunk and told his friends we had sex
i confronted him of it and he said that he was really really sorry
and that he was drunk not remembering if he had said that
...

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