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boyfriend troubles...
So, I'm going out with this guy and I don't really see him a lot because of our schedules at the moment but hes always saying stuff, like he misses me and he thinks about me a lot.. but he never calls or texts or anything. Another thing he does is sometimes when we're talking on aim, he'll just all of a sudden leave without saying bye or anything. Is all of this normal? Its my first relationship and idk, my friend and her boyfriend are always talking and texting all the time, but this guy dosen't seem to want to. Anyway, if anyone has any advice, let me know. Thanks :)
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Guys are very different from girls. if he isnt calling or texting or anything i wouldnt think he is completely interested but wants to keep you around.. my fiance and i always make time to be together. i work odd hours like 4-11 or 2-11 ill pick him up after work and we will go lay under the stars and he will call when i drop him off making sure i got home alright.. from what you wrote he doesnt sound like he cares that much
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Guys are very different from girls. They don't take as much offense to certain things, and they don't look into things as hard as us girls do. Sucks, I know. But it doesn't always mean that they care any less.
But it is bothering you.. and it should be addressed to him in a nice, and calm way. Tell him that you wish he would just put in a little bit more of an effort to show you how much he misses you. Explain that you like him, but you want to hear from him more often-- you want to know how he's doing and what he's up do.
Also, you could try texting him and asking about hit day. Mention that you miss him and he'll get the picture. If you start doing it, I'm sure he'll start too. The relationship will also improve in time. When my boyfriend and I first started to date, he wouldn't call me sometimes until the early morning. He'd tell me before he left where he was going and I could call-- but I didn't want to interupt. Once school started, the late night phone calls had to end, so I told him. Now he not only calls and texts a few times in the day-- but our relationship feels so much more powerful. And until he explained it, I was just like you. A bit confused and scared. But, it turned out that he didn't want to talk me because he HAD to-- but because he WANTED TO. A lot of people in relationships start to get into a mode where it feels more like a job then a fun relationship.
My advice is that you speak to him. And in the mean time.. shoot him a text saying "Heyyy..I miss my boyfriend =)"
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I did have a boyfriend quite like this. Sometimes guys just show their love differently. Don't think he does not want to be with you just because of this. If you think something is up though, you may want to try to talk with him about it.
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